Your wayyyy too hung up on her! You've met each other about 3 times and spoken on the phone, yet your feeling like this? Hmmm..... Methinks that she would be best left alone til she realises that the guy is too old. Also, once your in "the friend zone" its really hard to come out of their.... so maybe you'll have to realise that your jest best as mates. It hurts, but better to have a lovely girl as a mate than to not have a lovely girl at all.
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