Masturbation vs sex

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I’ve had sex a lot now, as a guy. Each time, I have been unable to ejaculate. Even when I use to do it with my ex, I normally always went home and finish myself off. Each time, obviously I experienced the best orgasm of my life.

During actual sex though, I don’t feel anything. Apart from the one time where I nearly came but pulled out, ever since then I’ve never really reached climax. Tbh, I think it’s to do with how long I actually have sex, so I might try just going until I ejaculate next time but the girl I’m doing it with usually always finishes first and is unable to continue.

Even during BJ’s, it’s very hard for me to be stimulated. I think it might be because of my porn history, idk.
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Anonymous #2
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maybe you're subconsciously scared of getting a girl pregnant. Maybe it'd be better in a long term relationship where u trust ur partner more. Idk tho, this is probs just a troll
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Anonymous #1
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maybe you're subconsciously scared of getting a girl pregnant. Maybe it'd be better in a long term relationship where u trust ur partner more. Idk tho, this is probs just a troll
This isn’t a troll. I’m being deadly serious
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I’ve had sex a lot now, as a guy. Each time, I have been unable to ejaculate. Even when I use to do it with my ex, I normally always went home and finish myself off. Each time, obviously I experienced the best orgasm of my life.

During actual sex though, I don’t feel anything. Apart from the one time where I nearly came but pulled out, ever since then I’ve never really reached climax. Tbh, I think it’s to do with how long I actually have sex, so I might try just going until I ejaculate next time but the girl I’m doing it with usually always finishes first and is unable to continue.

Even during BJ’s, it’s very hard for me to be stimulated. I think it might be because of my porn history, idk.
Too much porn = PIED, in many cases. Take a break from porn between now and when you next have sex, then see if you can ejaculate. May take a while, though.
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Anonymous #3
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either its the porn addiction, you're not sexually attracted to women, or you're feeling some sort of pressure from preforming.

so quit porn, and try adjusting your expectations for sex? good luck!!
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(Original post by SagaciousSag)
Too much porn = PIED, in many cases. Take a break from porn between now and when you next have sex, then see if you can ejaculate. May take a while, though.
I don’t even watch that much porn tbh.
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Anonymous #1
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either its the porn addiction, you're not sexually attracted to women, or you're feeling some sort of pressure from preforming.

so quit porn, and try adjusting your expectations for sex? good luck!!
I would say that I am attracted to women. Never really had performance issues, I am fairly athletic and muscular.
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Anonymous #3
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I would say that I am attracted to women. Never really had performance issues, I am fairly athletic and muscular.
maybe it could be more of a mental thing then? like some sort of repressed fear of failure or something - not trying to be mean or anything just genuinely trying to help ya out
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Anonymous #1
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maybe it could be more of a mental thing then? like some sort of repressed fear of failure or something - not trying to be mean or anything just genuinely trying to help ya out
Maybe. I am confident to know that I won’t fail though lol. All the girls I’ve been with have climaxed and I would easily say that I am able to do this without failing. I know you’re not trying to be mean, don’t worry about it.
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Anonymous #1
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Had sex last night, and had to finish myself off again but this time I did it in front of her. I came from sex, finally. I’m going to cut down on the porn now though
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