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hooked up with a really sweet guy last night, hated every second
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it's almost as i subconsciously like it when men treat me badly. why am i like this? why can't i ever like people that treat me 'right'?
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maybe this thread will help lol https://www.quora.com/Why-do-I-attra...t-me-like-crap
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your boyfriend pays for a roof over your head and a mattress so you don't sleep on a park bench is that correct?
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(Original post by Little pecker)
Was it big
Was it big
(Original post by Genesiss)
your boyfriend pays for a roof over your head and a mattress so you don't sleep on a park bench is that correct?
your boyfriend pays for a roof over your head and a mattress so you don't sleep on a park bench is that correct?
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pretty average :/
i told i need a break from our relationship like two days ago so
pretty average :/
i told i need a break from our relationship like two days ago so
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Two days ago and you've already slept with someone else?
Two days ago and you've already slept with someone else?
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(Original post by Ciel.)
i was bored
i was bored
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Your poor boyfriend. Don't string him along, he deserves better sorry.
Your poor boyfriend. Don't string him along, he deserves better sorry.
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(Original post by Ciel.)
he can sleep with other people too, idc
he can sleep with other people too, idc
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Sounds like you shouldn't be in a relationship. Or be in an open relationship?
Sounds like you shouldn't be in a relationship. Or be in an open relationship?
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(Original post by Ciel.)
it's almost as i subconsciously like it when men treat me badly. why am i like this? why can't i ever like people that treat me 'right'?
it's almost as i subconsciously like it when men treat me badly. why am i like this? why can't i ever like people that treat me 'right'?
I'll be honest, I don't think this is something you can change. People can't change deep rooted feelings/attitudes that have been ingrained into them through past experiences/relationships (think, observing family relationships that were similar, mom/dad toxic relationship ect). It's almost like how narcissists can't be cured of their narcissism, only treated. (although we all have narcissistic traits to some degree).
My advice - just be upfront with your future partners. Tell them this is how you are, so that when they engage in an argument with you, they know not to become invested into the heat of the moment as that is something you thrive in inadvertently.
And regarding this dude, do the right thing. If he's a nice guy, as you say, but you don't see him as a potential long term partner, tell him and let him move on.
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Your poor boyfriend. Don't string him along, he deserves better sorry.
Your poor boyfriend. Don't string him along, he deserves better sorry.
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(Original post by Ciel.)
it's almost as i subconsciously like it when men treat me badly. why am i like this? why can't i ever like people that treat me 'right'?
it's almost as i subconsciously like it when men treat me badly. why am i like this? why can't i ever like people that treat me 'right'?
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I've come across a few woman like this, some people refer to them as "damaged goods" or "toxic individuals".
I'll be honest, I don't think this is something you can change. People can't change deep rooted feelings/attitudes that have been ingrained into them through past experiences/relationships (think, observing family relationships that were similar, mom/dad toxic relationship ect). It's almost like how narcissists can't be cured of their narcissism, only treated. (although we all have narcissistic traits to some degree).
My advice - just be upfront with your future partners. Tell them this is how you are, so that when they engage in an argument with you, they know not to become invested into the heat of the moment as that is something you thrive in inadvertently.
And regarding this dude, do the right thing. If he's a nice guy, as you say, but you don't see him as a potential long term partner, tell him and let him move on.
I've come across a few woman like this, some people refer to them as "damaged goods" or "toxic individuals".
I'll be honest, I don't think this is something you can change. People can't change deep rooted feelings/attitudes that have been ingrained into them through past experiences/relationships (think, observing family relationships that were similar, mom/dad toxic relationship ect). It's almost like how narcissists can't be cured of their narcissism, only treated. (although we all have narcissistic traits to some degree).
My advice - just be upfront with your future partners. Tell them this is how you are, so that when they engage in an argument with you, they know not to become invested into the heat of the moment as that is something you thrive in inadvertently.
And regarding this dude, do the right thing. If he's a nice guy, as you say, but you don't see him as a potential long term partner, tell him and let him move on.
(Original post by Son of the Sea)
He’s been cheating on his boyfriend for years, he’s not going to stop.
He’s been cheating on his boyfriend for years, he’s not going to stop.
(Original post by ageshallnot)
Because you don't like yourself.
Because you don't like yourself.
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(Original post by Ciel.)
i do actually. im pretty vain, a lot of people think i'm narcissistic bc of that
i do actually. im pretty vain, a lot of people think i'm narcissistic bc of that
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did you let him nut inside you a lot of women prefer men like that maybe it is to do with testosterone or evolution or something
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I think if he was a real nice guy type, you were probably just being normal tbh. I have learned the hard way that being the nice guy isn't what most girls want, they usually prefer someone more confident and masculine than all sweet and nice.
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(Original post by ageshallnot)
I'm not talking about external appearances, but how you feel about yourself deep down inside. I've read a lot of your threads, not just this one, and came to that conclusion a while ago.
I'm not talking about external appearances, but how you feel about yourself deep down inside. I've read a lot of your threads, not just this one, and came to that conclusion a while ago.
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did you let him nut inside you a lot of women prefer men like that maybe it is to do with testosterone or evolution or something
did you let him nut inside you a lot of women prefer men like that maybe it is to do with testosterone or evolution or something
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I think if he was a real nice guy type, you were probably just being normal tbh. I have learned the hard way that being the nice guy isn't what most girls want, they usually prefer someone more confident and masculine than all sweet and nice.
I think if he was a real nice guy type, you were probably just being normal tbh. I have learned the hard way that being the nice guy isn't what most girls want, they usually prefer someone more confident and masculine than all sweet and nice.
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