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asking for a girls bra size if they ask about height

if a girl asks a Man about his height because she has a high preference. is it ok for the guy to ask about her bra size\ weight because he also has a preference?

Woman like height because it's a evolutionary trait. Tall cavemen = women feel better protection. Guys like boobs also because evolutionary trait. Bigger boobs = feel more milk for the children to survive.

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Yes.
Even better, single guys should highlight these types of dealbreakers in all their tinder and all online dating profiles.
A very effective method of weeding out incompatible girls at an early stage- by encouraging them to swipe left or use the site's block feature to avoid any further interaction.
Reply 3
In theory perhaps, yes. In real life, however, you may be considered creepy.

While height and bra size are both things that people can feel insecure about, the reality is that bra size is related to organs that are considered private. They are also sexualised. We cover them up. They are considered secondary sex characteristics.

I'd say a closer (but not exact) comparison would be like them asking you about d*ck size. Breasts are sexualised in a similar way to genitalia.

So, feel free to ask, but they can also feel free not to tell you.
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Reply 4
Asking about boobies can be seen as intrusive crossing the line because it's a private part, height is different.
Original post by xox416
Asking about boobies can be seen as intrusive crossing the line because it's a private part, height is different.

It's a great dealbreaker to help assess compatibility and shared values though. :biggrin:
Original post by Proxenus
if a girl asks a Man about his height because she has a high preference. is it ok for the guy to ask about her bra size\ weight because he also has a preference?

Woman like height because it's a evolutionary trait. Tall cavemen = women feel better protection. Guys like boobs also because evolutionary trait. Bigger boobs = feel more milk for the children to survive.

Weight sure.
Bra size questions come across quite badly so it's not a good idea to actively ask someone directly.
Post #3's suggestion of putting preferences regarding bra size on your profile is a good idea that won't make you come across as badly.
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‘It’s a private part’

Can’t stop laughing at this comment
:rofl: PRSOM.
Comedic genius has been achieved

Original post by Meduse
In theory perhaps, yes. In real life, however, you may be considered creepy.

While height and bra size are both things that people can feel insecure about, the reality is that bra size is related to organs that are considered private. They are also sexualised. We cover them up. They are considered secondary sex characteristics.

I'd say a closer (but not exact) comparison would be like them asking you about d*ck size. Breasts are sexualised in a similar way to genitalia.

So, feel free to ask, but they can also feel free not to tell you.

Great answer streak
I mean, it’s a good idea.

For making sure girls avoid red flags. You’re doing a good service to be honest!
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Original post by Proxenus
if a girl asks a Man about his height because she has a high preference. is it ok for the guy to ask about her bra size\ weight because he also has a preference?

Woman like height because it's a evolutionaryl trait. Tall cavemen = women feel better protection. Guys like boobs also because evolutionary trait. Bigger boobs = feel more milk for the children to survive.

height weight bra size lol

u funny
Original post by Proxenus
if a girl asks a Man about his height because she has a high preference. is it ok for the guy to ask about her bra size\ weight because he also has a preference?

Woman like height because it's a evolutionary trait. Tall cavemen = women feel better protection. Guys like boobs also because evolutionary trait. Bigger boobs = feel more milk for the children to survive.


lol that's not really true - it usually just means a woman has a higher proportion of body fat, or that's where fat naturally happens to be distributed in her body
Reply 14
Original post by rebelo
lol that's not really true - it usually just means a woman has a higher proportion of body fat, or that's where fat naturally happens to be distributed in her body


ye that's why I purposely put 'feel' because most guys probably won't know
Reply 15
Original post by gigachansligton
height weight bra size lol

u funny


they're all measurements which people have a preference for. what's your argument lol
Original post by Proxenus
they're all measurements which people have a preference for. what's your argument lol

ok they have a common factor and? they still don’t mean the same thing lmao. is asking for height really the same as asking for a bra size? lmfaooo. Bra size= breast= sexual organ= uncomfortable & out of line & INAPPROPRIATE to ask vs height= just height, a general thing. Is that simple enough? I mean if u think it’s fine, I applaud u to go ahead and proceed to ask multiple girls their bra size. Maybe even ask for their weight if ur feeling extra bold.
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Reply 17
Original post by gigachansligton
ok they have a common factor and? they still don’t mean the same thing lmao. , is asking for height really the same as asking for a bra size? lmfaooo. Bra size= breast= sexual organ= uncomfortable & out of line to ask vs height= just height, a general thing. Is that simple enough? I mean if u think it’s fine, I applaud u to go ahead and proceed to ask multiple girls their bra size. Maybe even ask for their weight if ur feeling extra bold.



Woman like height because it's a evolutionary trait. Tall cavemen = women feel better protection. Guys like boobs also because evolutionary trait. Bigger boobs = feel more milk for the children to Survive.

both are evolutionary traits. so yes somewhat comparable.

you say breasts = uncomfortable to talk about. don't short guys get uncomfortable too when asked about height? you don't sound too logical mate.
Original post by Proxenus
Bigger boobs = feel more milk for the children to Survive

Boob size has nothing to do with a woman's ability to breastfeed.
Original post by Proxenus
maybe you need to use your brain

Woman like height because it's a evolutionary trait. Tall cavemen = women feel better protection. Guys like boobs also because evolutionary trait. Bigger boobs = feel more milk for the children to Survive.

both are evolutionary traits. so yes somewhat comparable.

you say breasts = uncomfortable to talk about. don't short guys get uncomfortable too when asked about height? you don't sound too logical mate.


Ah yes do forgive me, height and breasts are definitely equivalent as they share a common factor of “evolutionary trait”. Therefore, height is definitely as sexualised as breasts! it’s not like tall and short men can walk around freely whereas girls can’t walk around with their bare breasts out! LOL.

Yep a short dude feeling uncomfortable due to their own insecurity is definitely equivalent to a woman feeling uncomfortable due to weird sexual implications from a creep basically asking for the size of their sexual organ!
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