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'Popular hot' girl falling in love with me - BUT I'M GAY! Watch

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    Basically this girl had 'loved' me since 2 years, I've been getting winks and things from her ever since. I must admit, she's one of the most attractive girls that I've ever seen; although she stalks me (and gets her mates to, at times) sometimes.
    I don't know what to do, she has confessed it and she talked dirty to me and everything but I really am Gay, I'm not out of the closet, and I'm not willing to exit the closet in a homophobic, Asian school! She told me to have 'sex' with her at dinner tomorrow because we're now, out of nowhere, 'engaged'!

    Should I ignore her? What should I say?
    I wish the guy I'm in love with did the same.
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    Tell her you're not interested and then stay clear of her.
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    Send her my way.
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    Ignore these stupid rumours. If they persist tell her you aren't interested in her. Or failin that kiss that bloke you like. Although that would be cruel.
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    Tell her you're not looking for a girlfriend at the minute.
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    Have sex with her... You might like it
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    You might as well get a blowjob out of her. :ninja:
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    Give her my number!!
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    Why not give it a try and see if you like it (presuming you've never had sex with a girl before)?
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    Whatever you do, dont reject her and tell her you're gay....she would probably feel so angry and humiliated that she'd tell everyone :eek:

    So dont do that unless you're ready to come out!

    You just need to tell her very firmly that you fancy someone else...after all that isnt even a lie is it? Tell her you are not attracted to her at all.

    If she cant handle rejection that is her problem...you shouldnt feel bad.
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    Keep Anon or delete.

    Basically this girl had 'loved' me since 2 years, I've been getting winks and things from her ever since. I must admit, she's one of the most attractive girls that I've ever seen; although she stalks me (and gets her mates to, at times) sometimes.
    I don't know what to do, she has confessed it and she talked dirty to me and everything but I really am Gay, I'm not out of the closet, and I'm not willing to exit the closet in a homophobic, Asian school! She told me to have 'sex' with her at dinner tomorrow because we're now, out of nowhere, 'engaged'!

    Should I ignore her? What should I say?
    I wish the guy I'm in love with did the same.
    R u sure you are gay? if you are then why would you be attracted to a girl?(as you said attractive). Does her looks move you? or do you just think, hey, shes good lookin? cos if she looks at u and u feel happy, then u mayb bi
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    If you flat out reject her, with nor explanation, people will think you'r batting for the wrong team. Tell people you think she's a slut, thereby giving a suitable reason not to do her.
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    lol funny she'll be soooooo embarassed if you told her the truth. poor girl. she does seem a bit forward though. however I think you should just try to be distant with her so she'll get the message; although that may upset her..hmmm...tell her the truth then, the sooner the better.
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    Just tell her you dont like her that way, you dont need to say you are gay, just because she is really pretty doesnt mean you would like her if you were straight anyway, as she does sound a bit weird!!
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    just tell her you are gay, whats the problem?
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    F*** being gay, shag that girl.
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    My guess is she knows you're gay, and is trying to prove it.
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    (Original post by Tyrotoxism)
    Send her my way.
    Damn, in before teh Manning....
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    I've never gotten with a girl, but I never enjoy watching heterosexual porn and girls doing things. Only penis turns me on, honestly. I feel like I'm manipulating her if I get with her then... I hate it. :ninja:
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    I'd have thought it was obvious that you just tell her you're not interested, it doesn't have to mean that you're not interested in any girl, just her.
 
 
 
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