so i'm in 3rd year, and i've been living with the same group of girls for the 2nd year and this year. in a 6 bed flat. 4 of them are really lovely, but there's one who is an absolute bitch. from the first day i met her, she's been
incredibly rude to me & has always insisted on making malicious comments which obviously hurt my feelings. the first day i met her, she told me to stay away from her boyfriend! when i had done NOTHING at all to insinuate that i might like him. other than that throughout the year she has been generally insensitive - on my birthday when hardly anyone showed up to my party i was devastated but she made it even worse by acting like she was having a **** time instead of trying to make me feel better. it was really humiliating for me and the way she acted made it so much worse. other than that she is CONSTANTLY critical of my appearance - she notices EVERYTHING i do which is a subtle change and points out every time i lose/gain a few pounds. and i mean A FEW, as in 3 or 4. other people barely notice these things, but it seems like she scrutinises my appearance constantly just so she can make a comment about something. the thing that pushed me into making this thread was the fact that this morning i had just woken up and she started telling me about how she was looking at pics of me last night and how i was 'REALLY REALLY CHUBBY' in them and now i've lost sooo much weight? i said that it's probably because those pictures were taken so long ago and everyone grows up and looks different, but she repeated herself 3 or 4 times saying how fat i used to be.i also have bad allergies which make my face flushed from time to time, and i'm extremely self-conscious about it - as you can imagine she takes every possible opportunity to point this out, in spite of me telling her i get upset about it. when my parents came to visit, after they left she was like 'they NEVER come do they?' insinuating that they really don't give a **** about me (completely untrue, they're both professional people with extremely busy lives). she makes me feel really bad about myself, and generally speaking, she's very, very catty, spiteful and mean. i just really
dont know what to do about her, i'm SO fed up that its got to the point that im practically counting down the days until i can move out... HELP ME!!
*sorry for the grammatical crappiness of this, i typed it in a tear-filled rage*