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Feeling really insecure, everyone be honest with me

Whenever I am out in public guys never look nor stare at me, what I usually do is that I don't look at anyone, I look straight ahead there quickly look at people to see if they are looking at me and they never do. Does this mean that I am not good looking? Since I just heard so many girls saying that guys stare at them on the street and it never happens to me so I must be unattractive right? Or do you have to wear a promiscious outfit for guys to look since I dress modestly but my face is like model tier so I rely on my face and clearly its not good if no guy looks?

Like you guys would look at a good looking girl right?

Does this mean I'm not good looking? be honest, don't sugarcoat
Yes
We’ll I don’t think anyone can answer that lol? Stop basing you worth off people staring at you. If you think you good looking you are, not everyone has the same type your not going to be everyone’s type especially if you don’t look like the average girl which isn’t a bad thing.
Original post by Anonymous
We’ll I don’t think anyone can answer that lol? Stop basing you worth off people staring at you. If you think you good looking you are, not everyone has the same type your not going to be everyone’s type especially if you don’t look like the average girl which isn’t a bad thing.

that is not what I asked nor do I want to hear that, if you don't have an answer to my questions in OP don't waffle
Original post by Little pecker
Yes

yeah I thought so, thank you for the honesty
Tbh looks are subjective so what one person will find attractive another won’t. Don’t base your worth off of other peoples opinions. Yours is more important!
Original post by Anonymous
Tbh looks are subjective so what one person will find attractive another won’t. Don’t base your worth off of other peoples opinions. Yours is more important!

okay so you agree that if a guy doesn't look at you in public HE doesn't find you attractive? this is what I am asking really
Original post by Anonymous
We’ll I don’t think anyone can answer that lol? Stop basing you worth off people staring at you. If you think you good looking you are, not everyone has the same type your not going to be everyone’s type especially if you don’t look like the average girl which isn’t a bad thing.

Even if you don't think so, I agree. Guys not staring at you doesn't mean you're not attractive. Staring is usually creepy, and (hopefully) most avoid doing that.
Original post by ran-dumb
Even if you don't think so, I agree. Guys not staring at you doesn't mean you're not attractive. Staring is usually creepy, and (hopefully) most avoid doing that.

We stare for a reason though, otherwise we’d stare at anything.
Original post by Anonymous
that is not what I asked nor do I want to hear that, if you don't have an answer to my questions in OP don't waffle


It does answer you question if you read.
Original post by Little pecker
We stare for a reason though, otherwise we’d stare at anything.

would you stare at this girl if u saw her in public? as this is what i would count as extreamly beautiful
How many people stare at you is not a measure of how attractive you are. So no, just because guys don't stare at you it doesn't mean that you're not attractive. Also, being pretty and/or having a nice body doesn't necessarily make you attractive either. Maybe it does initially, but if you don't have a nice personality/vibe then people won't find you attractive either.
Original post by kaorimiyazono
How many people stare at you is not a measure of how attractive you are. So no, just because guys don't stare at you it doesn't mean that you're not attractive. Also, being pretty and/or having a nice body doesn't necessarily make you attractive either. Maybe it does initially, but if you don't have a nice personality/vibe then people won't find you attractive either.

obviously when people see you in public they don't know your personality, can only go off looks so that point is invalid. If you look like a model nearly every guy will stare at u/do a double take no?
Original post by Anonymous
obviously when people see you in public they don't know your personality, can only go off looks so that point is invalid. If you look like a model nearly every guy will stare at u/do a double take no?

Ok yeah, that's why I answered your question first and then added something I thought you might need (not want, clearly) to hear.

I'm a bisexual girl so yeah I do understand that sometimes hot women can make people do double takes or stare- I do it sometimes too. But honestly, if I'm out and about minding my own business, I hardly ever notice attractive women (or men). It's very rare that someone makes me go "wow that person's good looking" because I don't go out to find attractive people. I believe this is the case for most people. I mean, do you stare at every attractive person you see on the street?

My point is: Dw- just because guys don't stare at you it does not mean that you're not attractive. But there are more important things in life than whether random strangers give you fleeting moments of attention or not.
ngl doesn’t mean your not attractive, maybe they just don’t care and are minding their business and can’t be bothered or the men you’re walking past have loyalties elsewhere lol. Maybe someone has stolen glances at you when you don’t realise

your beauty isn’t measured by how many people look at you btw
Original post by Anonymous
Whenever I am out in public guys never look nor stare at me, what I usually do is that I don't look at anyone, I look straight ahead there quickly look at people to see if they are looking at me and they never do. Does this mean that I am not good looking? Since I just heard so many girls saying that guys stare at them on the street and it never happens to me so I must be unattractive right? Or do you have to wear a promiscious outfit for guys to look since I dress modestly but my face is like model tier so I rely on my face and clearly its not good if no guy looks?

Like you guys would look at a good looking girl right?

Does this mean I'm not good looking? be honest, don't sugarcoat


We haven’t even seen you how can we tell if you are ugly or not doesn’t seems to make sense to me….
Original post by theendisnear
would you stare at this girl if u saw her in public? as this is what i would count as extreamly beautiful


I’d probably faint if I saw her
Original post by Little pecker
I’d probably faint if I saw her


why would u faint lol
Original post by theendisnear
would you stare at this girl if u saw her in public? as this is what i would count as extreamly beautiful


Of course I would stare she is a supermodel
Go walk about in a nightlife district. You’ll get stares there if you’re pretty or have a good outfit and body.
If not, then you’ll know what it means

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