I've been seeing a guy for like two months, since we came to uni pretty much. We both split up with people right before uni and were both convinced that we didn't want a new relationship (at the time). So when we started off it was very, very no-strings but we are far more coupley now. I've basically decided now I -probably- do want a relationship with this guy, by now I'm over my ex and I really really like him. I asked him about what was going on the other day and he said that he thought he didn't want a girlfriend but I've made him seriously doubt that...but he still doesn't know.
Main issue is that me and my ex split up on bad terms and now don't speak, we went out for like a year and it was very serious. This guy's ex and him went out for like 2-3 months and split up on well good terms and are still friends. They text each other all the time. He has gone to see her at her uni this weekend and every single second I am actually going insane with being uncomfortable with this. I have no reason to think he likes her and he actually told me outright (without me asking) not to read anything into him going to see her. But I can't help thinking it's weird. Does anyone else agree? (Also, does anyone have any tips to carry me over the next two days of continuing to freak out about it until he's back???)
How do you think you'll do?