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    Ok so I REALLY like someone.. shes hot and sweet and amazing. Apparently I am flirting with her (more than I'm aware I am) I feel like we could be good together and people keep saying go for it... but I dont really know how to. My confidence is quite low when it comes to relationships and I'm always comparing myself to them... I feel I'm nto good enough for the and let them pass by. I'd really like to ask her out on a date and I dont know how.. I'd quite like to send a sweet text or something but I dont kow what.. then I'd agonise over waiting for the to text back....

    help.
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    if your flirting with her you have confidence
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    really dooo go for it! you'll regret if you don't. send a sweet text but make it subtle at the same time..
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    It sounds eaiser than it is, but just go for a coffee somewhere, talk, flirt and then just simply...go for it.

    Or, you could watch as she gets bored and moves on.

    Your choice bud.
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    Just go for it. Just be subtle and don't forget cool...:cool:
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    I dont know... proibably... I've learned to be confident around people and I treat her as a friend but just talk to her a lot more... I talk/ask about her a lot and sometimes relate things to myself. I think a lot of my flirting I am unaware of, people just say I'm doing it more than I think I am
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    People are capable of much more than they believe thay are
    That's from your profile. Why don't you think that about yourself?

    Your capable of much more than you think you are.
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    Oh I do think it... but I'm not superwoman... I just dont know how do go about it... and other attempts with other people have gone wrong and knocke my confidence...

    I just dont really know what to say to kick off from... any suggestions
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    What's the worst that could happen? When do you next see her face to face? Just casually suggest something to do that she'd really like- e.g going somewhere she's been meaning to visit, shopping in a particular specialist place, seeing a certain film. Sorry if that sounds really clichéd!
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    well were going bowling on saturday.... not just us but its a lot of people together meeting from QYN (queer youth network) east midlnads
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    (Original post by Kabloomybuzz)
    well were going bowling on saturday.... not just us but its a lot of people together meeting from QYN (queer youth network) east midlnads
    Go for it...whats the worst that can happen? Okay she might turn you down, but at least you'll know where you stand and will be able to move on.

    If you dont try, you'll never know...and you might be pleasantly surprised
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    I know. We've been texting a lot today and talking on msn every night since I got her addy... didn't have to ask for her number so..

    I will try to think of something in the coming week... and hope its nto too corny... ideas would be appreicaited. anything worked for anyone else.
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    (Original post by Kabloomybuzz)
    I know. We've been texting a lot today and talking on msn every night since I got her addy... didn't have to ask for her number so..

    I will try to think of something in the coming week... and hope its nto too corny... ideas would be appreicaited. anything worked for anyone else.
    I'd much rather regret something I did, than something I didn't.

    BLOODY GO FOR IT
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    I don't understand why people even bother posting things like that, they aren't helpful or clever, or relevant. Could you write her something? I always find people are blown away by writing, even just a little note. Handwritten things feel personal
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    Ignore the ****, if you've been spending as much time with her as you say have, then go for it She's probably in the same position ie feels uncomfortable asking you out etc.
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    Something handwritten seems like a good idea... but I suppose the content matters more than what its written on... or if its siad or not
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    oh of course!
 
 
 
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