Please keep this anon
I dated a guy a year ago and the relationship was rocky. I didn't really think we could communicate so well, so I ended it. He's gotten i touch to tell me how angry he still is. I'm not sure what to say to him.. my feeling is that it's been a year! I can't even remember half the things he's angry about :s
Any advice on what I should do next?
Ex from a year ago ranted at me Watch
- Thread Starter
- 09-11-2008 22:15
- 09-11-2008 23:24
in his defence,it must be really sucky to be hung up on stuff like this after such a long time, though you do need to tell him to get a grip and get over it, do try and remember the stuff he's annoyed about and explain to him why you think things turned out the way he did
- 09-11-2008 23:26
ignore him. he'll get over it eventually.
actually, if anything him ranting at you will have let off a lot of steam for him, maybe he's finished now
- 09-11-2008 23:27
Just tell him to **** off and get over it, it's been a year.
- 09-11-2008 23:29
Hahahahaha I have a boy like that.
But mine was worse, it was 2 years ago.
I was on cam to him the other day and he was like "oh, your hair." i was like, "what about it?" and he was like "DON'T YOU REMEMBER?" and i was like. "uhm.. no?" :/
- Thread Starter
- 11-11-2008 03:06
He asked me if I understood his need to rant and I replied 'yes'
Got nothing back. I feel kinda bad for him that he's so hung up over the things I said to him. I vaguely remember getting angry at him once when I felt irritable over feeling obliged to be diplomatic. He seems to have taken everything personally. He used to ask me for my opinion about things and when I was honest he treated it like a personal attack. Like the time he asked me if he could sing. I wanted to say, you sound like a cat being strangled, but instead I'd smile and comment on the one WORD he did sing in tune. I think that if I had been honest he would jumped off a bridge.
I wonder if I'll hear from him again :s
- 11-11-2008 11:07
you just need to ignore him, the more contact you have the angrier hes gonna get and he'll keep pestering you coz you're on his mind.
ignorings the way to go.
- 11-11-2008 11:12
I had an ex from over a year and a half ago sent me a completely bizzare and furious facebook message telling me how much she hates (loves) me and various other rhetorical questions.
She so crazy.