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    I have never been on a date, had a kiss, or been clubbing or had much of a social life apart from some close friends. I'm nervous about going to uni in this state of innocence... will there me many people like me?
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    Well, theres bound to be someone...
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    It doesn't matter, I bet uni will corrupt you
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    You won't find many people, no, but I'm sure there's someone...

    Just don't tell anyone and go with the flow...
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    Yup, shamed to say I was just like that this year! Yeah...uni will corrupt you...:p: I had a social life, but no dates, was way too shy.
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    I'm sure you'll people in your position, I fit quite a bit of your description
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    Probs a few people, but there bound not to be wanting to tell anyone, so just try to enjoy yourself
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    I was the same in 1st year and was very easily corrupted Try and keep some innocence and naivety! I never had a drink, never had a guy look at me, barely chatted to a guy, so on and so forth before getting to uni. God I sound old saying that but I mean, I tried to do everything too quick and changed way too quick and did nothing right when I got there...!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have never been on a date, had a kiss, or been clubbing or had much of a social life apart from some close friends. I'm nervous about going to uni in this state of innocence... will there me many people like me?
    As someone who was in your position, I would say that there aren't many others out there, and that they are inherently difficult to find even if there are. So you will almost certainly get the impression that there are close to none. But in reality there are bound to be a few.
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    Believe me your not missing anything going out to dance music clubs
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    Im the same as you!!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have never been on a date, had a kiss, or been clubbing or had much of a social life apart from some close friends. I'm nervous about going to uni in this state of innocence... will there me many people like me?

    yup, loads, not that they go round wearing signs mind...

    Honestly, a lot of that **** is overrated. Clubbing is a worthless waste of time, IMO.
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    I'm 2 months into my second year and I'm still in your position. You'd be surprised how many of us there is.
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    Btw, there's no need to rush into all those things, just take it as it comes I know it can feel quite scary everyone else has experienced everything before you, I know i certainly do! But don't rush into it as you might regrett some stuff! So yeah, like I said just try to enjoy yourself
 
 
 
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