Argument with driving instructor

Look for a new instructor! Google patient driving instructors in your area, I don't know if you're a woman but as a woman I found my best most patient driving instructor that I felt the most calm with was a woman.
I had a similar situation with my intensive instructor, because I had lessons a couple years ago he skipped moving off and clutch control and then he was getting hysterical when I kept botching junctions. It was only after we went over clutch control and moving off (8 hours into lessons) that I understood and surprise surprise I did junctions better. I wish I could change instructors but I've already paid him for all my hours and booked my test in his car, so definitely change if you can.
You can't learn if you aren't calm and confident, and it's your instructors job to teach you - which involves identifying issues and giving you tools, not just repeating the same information but louder and angrier.

I don't think so. My driving instructor was quite nice but I would feel the same as you when I'd get criticisms. I can't imagine dealing with it on the scale that you are though. You've vocalised to your instructor that they are shouting unnecessary but the fact that they deny it after? Honestly I'd look for a new instructor.

your in the right, you should feel calm while driving! get a new instructor!

My driving instructor gets frustrated and annoyed easily, I have been taking lessons since February and since the beginning he gets annoyed when i don't do things right. Today i struggled to change lanes in time when turning right on the roundabout and also my observation wasn't good. But he got annoyed and kept asking what was i thinking and what my thought process was but in an annoyed way, this happened at about 3 roundabouts, normally I just agree but this time I said i am trying my best and he said no your not which annoyed me so i said can you teach me instead of shouting and he said he was not shouting and not to accuse him of something he didn't do and I said but I am trying and he said try harder, he also told me not to give him attitude when he is teaching me. Also my driving lessons are normally in the morning when there are less car on the road on a weekday, today it was at 12:30.

I honestly feel like its him getting annoyed that makes me make more mistakes because he calmed down after and wasn't getting annoyed anymore but even when someone was near a zebra crossing i didn't know what to do because if i stop then i thought he would get annoyed and say why did you stop they are far but if i didn't stop then he might get annoyed and say why didn't you stop. He is really good at teaching parking but that is it, but even then he was getting annoying at one point when i was taking time to position my car correctly.

was i wrong to get annoyed at him?

I would change instructor immediately; a good one won't get angry.

Thank you so much, but I can't now its too late

Thank you so much, but I have already booked my lessons and driving test, too late to change now

If you can i would call up the main office if the company he works for and speak to them. So they can refund you or transfer it for when you take lessons with someone else through them. You can always cancel the test.

Honestly it's not worth putting up with an instructor like that. I've had an having an incredibly rough ride with instructors etc but got will eventually find someone and I'm this time I've learnt if you are not doing too get along with them that's fine don't waste time and find someone else.

Thank you very much for your reply, the problem I said I would like to have my test in August but because there is no availability in my area the instructor is in a group chat with other instructors who are also examiners, who let the instructors know first when someone cancels their date, and got me a test date but for £200. Some dodgy business which I am basically somehow become part of, so he basically got me my driving test in time, so is it bad if change instructors?