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I am / was in a very serious relationship . Till 3 months ago everything was fine . Actually he was going to propose to me the next time we meet .(he had told me before dating that he had commintment issues btw) But then he went to uni . We were close for a few weeks . Then he randomly stopped texting me . For 2 months no texts . Then i was very concerned . Asked him . Then he asked for a break saying things arent going well . His best friends there (3) have crushes on him (he had told me befor) and had asked him out multiple times .
I texted him recently and he replied saying that he was busy with studies . But he was always posting stories abt going out with friends . No calls nothing . Then now i texted him asking if he wanted to break up and he hasnt replied( has been 3 weeks) .. But he is always online . Always out and stuff .
Please help .I dont understand whats happening. But this is killing me . I genuinely thought tt dis relp wld b it . V had planned literally everyday till d day v die , so i dont undersatnd y dis relationship means NOTHING 2 him rn . I dont understand whr dis went wrong ....
I texted him recently and he replied saying that he was busy with studies . But he was always posting stories abt going out with friends . No calls nothing . Then now i texted him asking if he wanted to break up and he hasnt replied( has been 3 weeks) .. But he is always online . Always out and stuff .
Please help .I dont understand whats happening. But this is killing me . I genuinely thought tt dis relp wld b it . V had planned literally everyday till d day v die , so i dont undersatnd y dis relationship means NOTHING 2 him rn . I dont understand whr dis went wrong ....
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Honestly seems like he wants to go out and live the uni life, I’d just break up with him. Doesn’t sound like he’s interested in the relationship, you’ll find someone better.
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ikk.. ik i shld ... i tht tellin him tt i wantd 2 breakup wld make him call me .. i txted him tt ... he hasnt opened d chat ..it was d last text and hes always online....
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Honestly seems like he wants to go out and live the uni life, I’d just break up with him. Doesn’t sound like he’s interested in the relationship, you’ll find someone better.
Honestly seems like he wants to go out and live the uni life, I’d just break up with him. Doesn’t sound like he’s interested in the relationship, you’ll find someone better.
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ikk.. ik i shld ... i tht tellin him tt i wantd 2 breakup wld make him call me .. i txted him tt ... he hasnt opened d chat ..it was d last text and hes always online....
ikk.. ik i shld ... i tht tellin him tt i wantd 2 breakup wld make him call me .. i txted him tt ... he hasnt opened d chat ..it was d last text and hes always online....
You don’t have to have closure and you don’t have to allow the treatment he’s giving you.
Setting clear boundaries and having the strength to walk away will mean people won’t take advantage of you in the future.
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Just leave him. He doesn't deserve someone like you.
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Sadly, it sounds like he has lost interest in your relationship. It might be time to let it go.
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tnxxx sooo much 4 sayin tat .. exactly wat i wanted 2 know ... i was hopin until rn tat mayb ill wait a bit more 4 him, .... but yea .. iv given him enuf tym... i shld tc of myself ..
(Original post by skejrjoen)
He hasn’t opened your texts but it’s clear that he’s online, that means he’s ignoring you. Block + delete his number and move on, well, that’s what I would do anyway.
You don’t have to have closure and you don’t have to allow the treatment he’s giving you.
Setting clear boundaries and having the strength to walk away will mean people won’t take advantage of you in the future.
He hasn’t opened your texts but it’s clear that he’s online, that means he’s ignoring you. Block + delete his number and move on, well, that’s what I would do anyway.
You don’t have to have closure and you don’t have to allow the treatment he’s giving you.
Setting clear boundaries and having the strength to walk away will mean people won’t take advantage of you in the future.
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you type like you're having a stroke. The relationship literally broke down as soon as he entered uni. Find someone new, maybe an english teacher.
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you type like you're having a stroke. The relationship literally broke down as soon as he entered uni. Find someone new, maybe an english teacher.
you type like you're having a stroke. The relationship literally broke down as soon as he entered uni. Find someone new, maybe an english teacher.
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tnxxx sooo much 4 sayin tat .. exactly wat i wanted 2 know ... i was hopin until rn tat mayb ill wait a bit more 4 him, .... but yea .. iv given him enuf tym... i shld tc of myself ..
tnxxx sooo much 4 sayin tat .. exactly wat i wanted 2 know ... i was hopin until rn tat mayb ill wait a bit more 4 him, .... but yea .. iv given him enuf tym... i shld tc of myself ..
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ikk.. ik i shld ... i tht tellin him tt i wantd 2 breakup wld make him call me .. i txted him tt ... he hasnt opened d chat ..it was d last text and hes always online....
ikk.. ik i shld ... i tht tellin him tt i wantd 2 breakup wld make him call me .. i txted him tt ... he hasnt opened d chat ..it was d last text and hes always online....
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yupp just gonna block him n cry 4 a week
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Just leave him. He doesn't deserve someone like you.
Just leave him. He doesn't deserve someone like you.
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yupp just gonna...
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Sadly, it sounds like he has lost interest in your relationship. It might be time to let it go.
Sadly, it sounds like he has lost interest in your relationship. It might be time to let it go.
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your style of typing probably ****ed him off. It's ****ing me off.
your style of typing probably ****ed him off. It's ****ing me off.
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yupp just gonna block him n cry 4 a week
yupp just gonna block him n cry 4 a week
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im judging as well
im judging as well
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it wass d bessst relpp iv had so .. yh ..... just wldv don anytn 2 get it back ... well wont anymore .. iv 2 let go .. dis cant go on ..
(Original post by Wannabevetnurse)
you type like you're having a stroke. The relationship literally broke down as soon as he entered uni. Find someone new, maybe an english teacher.
you type like you're having a stroke. The relationship literally broke down as soon as he entered uni. Find someone new, maybe an english teacher.
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it wass d bessst relpp iv had so .. yh ..... just wldv don anytn 2 get it back ... well wont anymore .. iv 2 let go .. dis cant go on ..
it wass d bessst relpp iv had so .. yh ..... just wldv don anytn 2 get it back ... well wont anymore .. iv 2 let go .. dis cant go on ..
but honestly if you are heartbroken, it'll be alright. Everything will be fine.
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wait wat . i didnt kno thr was an issue w hw i typ eheem😂
(Original post by Wannabevetnurse)
Your style of typing probably ****ed him off. It's ****ing me off.
Your style of typing probably ****ed him off. It's ****ing me off.
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