Unrequited crushes

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In the vast majority of cases of unrequited crushes where a guy asks a girl out and gets rejected, was the girl never attracted to the guy in the first place?
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There's a difference between not finding someone physically attractive and not being romantically attracted to them. You're not ugly just because you got rejected.
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(Original post by SagaciousSag)
There's a difference between not finding someone physically attractive and not being romantically attracted to them. You're not ugly just because you got rejected.
What makes a guy romantically unattractive?
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What makes a guy romantically unattractive?
Undesirable personality or actions, in some cases. In others, nothing in particular. Just not attracted because you don't know each other or you don't see a person in that way.
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Undesirable personality or actions, in some cases. In others, nothing in particular. Just not attracted because you don't know each other or you don't see a person in that way.
What about if the guy is just bad at flirting or being romantic and just acts like a friend?
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What about if the guy is just bad at flirting or being romantic and just acts like a friend?
Then you might be seen as just a friend.
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Then you might be seen as just a friend.
So what’s the solution to this problem?
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So what’s the solution to this problem?
Once you're rejected, that's it. If she shows no interest in pursuing a romantic relationship with you, you're just friends.
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Once you're rejected, that's it. If she shows no interest in pursuing a romantic relationship with you, you're just friends.
I mean in general. Not with 1 particular girl. How do you solve the issue of being a bad flirt/romantic and just coming across as a friend.
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I mean in general. Not with 1 particular girl. How do you solve the issue of being a bad flirt/romantic and just coming across as a friend.
Just show interest.
https://www.jessicayaffa.org/3-ways-...on-too-strong/
https://dating.lovetoknow.com/Romanc..._of_Attraction
https://www.wikihow.com/Show-a-Woman...tracted-to-Her
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I’m not sure it’s as simple as this. I think it’s more an art than a science. If you robotically followed every step in these articles, I don’t think it will get you far. I guess it’s just practice and trial and error.
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In the vast majority of cases of unrequited crushes where a guy asks a girl out and gets rejected, was the girl never attracted to the guy in the first place?
Well, obviously not, if it's an unrequited crush!
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