Is a body count of 7 too high?

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We were talking about previous partners and she told me she slept with 6 guys within the span of 6 months. I'm constantly thinking about this and I'm considering breaking up. It may sound a bit stupid but it's weighing very heavily on my mind. I think she's way too easy for me. Should I end it with her?
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She should end it with you.
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I would lol. Especially since it was so recent as well. You're probably just the flavour of the month before she moves onto the next one.
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I think she's way too easy for me
She should end it with you.
Why does it matter how many people she slept with before?? The fact that she's with you now should be more than enough reason to stay with her. You'll be lucky if she doesn't see this. Misogynist.
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(Original post by Wannabevetnurse)
She should end it with you.
Why does it matter how many people she slept with before?? The fact that she's with you now should be more than enough reason to stay with her. You'll be lucky if she doesn't see this. Misogynist.
Can't tell if satire or not lmao.
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(Original post by Chicken.M.)
Can't tell if satire or not lmao.
It's not satire. If you care about how many people your partner has slept with, you don't deserve them. The past is theirs and the future is ours.
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She should end it with you.
Why does it matter how many people she slept with before?? The fact that she's with you now should be more than enough reason to stay with her. You'll be lucky if she doesn't see this. Misogynist.
Yea I feel like an ******* because she's such a lovely person but I just can't get over this. Could I have some advice instead of criticism?
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(Original post by Wannabevetnurse)
It's not satire. If you care about how many people your partner has slept with, you don't deserve them. The past is theirs and the future is ours.
If someone has a clear pattern of behaviour they're very likely to continue with that behaviour. If OP is the seventh guy in 6 months I'm betting she's going to have a new boyfriend by the end of the month. Someone who's constantly in and out of relationships does not put the same value on commitment/relationships as someone who sticks to one person for a long period of time.

Also it's not misogyny when it applies to everyone.
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(Original post by Chicken.M.)
I would lol. Especially since it was so recent as well. You're probably just the flavour of the month before she moves onto the next one.
Thanks, I think I'll just end it with her. Don't wanna be played smh.
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Thanks, I think I'll just end it with her. Don't wanna be played smh.
It's the safest option lol. I've been with a bunch of girls like that. Never again :laugh: Not worth the risk at all if you're looking for a proper relationship.

Obviously you could risk it and she might turn out OK but it's like being with someone who used to do loads of drugs. They can always go back to that lifestyle pretty easily if something triggers them, like an argument or whatever lol.
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It's the safest option lol. I've been with a bunch of girls like that. Never again :laugh: Not worth the risk at all if you're looking for a proper relationship.

Obviously you could risk it and she might turn out OK but it's like being with someone who used to do loads of drugs. They can always go back to that lifestyle pretty easily if something triggers them, like an argument or whatever lol.
She did cocaine and smoked weed daily too... I think it's best if I leave.
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(Original post by Chicken.M.)
If someone has a clear pattern of behaviour they're very likely to continue with that behaviour. If OP is the seventh guy in 6 months I'm betting she's going to have a new boyfriend by the end of the month. Someone who's constantly in and out of relationships does not put the same value on commitment/relationships as someone who sticks to one person for a long period of time.

Also it's not misogyny when it applies to everyone.
Do you know her conditions? Dyu know why she's had 6 other people?

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Yea I feel like an ******* because she's such a lovely person but I just can't get over this. Could I have some advice instead of criticism?
Stick with her, and if you notice her withdrawing from you and something going on regarding another guy, then drop her.
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Why don’t you just talk to her about it instead of random strangers on the internet who have no real idea about what your current relationship is like.
Are you a virgin yourself?
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(Original post by Chicken.M.)
It's the safest option lol. I've been with a bunch of girls like that. Never again :laugh: Not worth the risk at all if you're looking for a proper relationship.

Obviously you could risk it and she might turn out OK but it's like being with someone who used to do loads of drugs. They can always go back to that lifestyle pretty easily if something triggers them, like an argument or whatever lol.
If you’ve “been with a bunch of girls like that” aren’t you exactly the same as these girls? Do people see it as a red flag for you?
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End it pls for ur sake
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Murders or sexual partners?

Murders yes, sexual partners no.
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Murders or sexual partners?

Murders yes, sexual partners no.
Yeah, I would say that the average murderer only has a bodycount of 2 or 3.
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She should end it with you.
Why does it matter how many people she slept with before?? The fact that she's with you now should be more than enough reason to stay with her. You'll be lucky if she doesn't see this. Misogynist.
so true
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Re sexual partners: no, its a stupid reason to break up for. You're essentially condemning someone's past actions to be who they are absolutely. If she's with you now, it doesn't matter what her past was, because she's with you. A man could have several multiples of that body count, and he wouldn't face such comments. If you **** your pants in the past, would it be fair for you to be Mr shitpants for the rest of your days? I don't think so.

Re being a drug taking crackhead: yes break up, this is degenerate
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Also, what's YOUR body count? Why didn't you include that
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