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I don’t know why but recently this past year I have been wanting a relationship with someone so bad. I’m only 16 but everything I see on social media like tiktok of cute asian couples I really want it.
Firstly I know it’s haram in our religion, but like even in school everyone else has someone they like and I don’t. I feel like I just want someone like the talking stage seems exciting and just so does everything.
Even though mostly at my age it ends bad I don’t care about that and it’s the fact I don’t have a crush on anyone I know in real life. I see people on social media and be like I would like them if I knew them in real life but there is no one like that - I want to meet someone near my age who I can lol.
I don’t know what to do and obviously I would never tell anyone this irl but I just need advice.
Firstly I know it’s haram in our religion, but like even in school everyone else has someone they like and I don’t. I feel like I just want someone like the talking stage seems exciting and just so does everything.
Even though mostly at my age it ends bad I don’t care about that and it’s the fact I don’t have a crush on anyone I know in real life. I see people on social media and be like I would like them if I knew them in real life but there is no one like that - I want to meet someone near my age who I can lol.
I don’t know what to do and obviously I would never tell anyone this irl but I just need advice.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I don’t know why but recently this past year I have been wanting a relationship with someone so bad. I’m only 16 but everything I see on social media like tiktok of cute asian couples I really want it.
Firstly I know it’s haram in our religion, but like even in school everyone else has someone they like and I don’t. I feel like I just want someone like the talking stage seems exciting and just so does everything.
Even though mostly at my age it ends bad I don’t care about that and it’s the fact I don’t have a crush on anyone I know in real life. I see people on social media and be like I would like them if I knew them in real life but there is no one like that - I want to meet someone near my age who I can lol.
I don’t know what to do and obviously I would never tell anyone this irl but I just need advice.
I don’t know why but recently this past year I have been wanting a relationship with someone so bad. I’m only 16 but everything I see on social media like tiktok of cute asian couples I really want it.
Firstly I know it’s haram in our religion, but like even in school everyone else has someone they like and I don’t. I feel like I just want someone like the talking stage seems exciting and just so does everything.
Even though mostly at my age it ends bad I don’t care about that and it’s the fact I don’t have a crush on anyone I know in real life. I see people on social media and be like I would like them if I knew them in real life but there is no one like that - I want to meet someone near my age who I can lol.
I don’t know what to do and obviously I would never tell anyone this irl but I just need advice.
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The best solution is to get off tiktok. People only post what they want others to see.
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The best solution is to get off tiktok. People only post what they want others to see.
The best solution is to get off tiktok. People only post what they want others to see.
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I know they do but it’s not just tiktok that makes me feel like I want one as well. I don’t knowwww tho
I know they do but it’s not just tiktok that makes me feel like I want one as well. I don’t knowwww tho
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I don’t know why but recently this past year I have been wanting a relationship with someone so bad. I’m only 16 but everything I see on social media like tiktok of cute asian couples I really want it.
Firstly I know it’s haram in our religion, but like even in school everyone else has someone they like and I don’t. I feel like I just want someone like the talking stage seems exciting and just so does everything.
Even though mostly at my age it ends bad I don’t care about that and it’s the fact I don’t have a crush on anyone I know in real life. I see people on social media and be like I would like them if I knew them in real life but there is no one like that - I want to meet someone near my age who I can lol.
I don’t know what to do and obviously I would never tell anyone this irl but I just need advice.
I don’t know why but recently this past year I have been wanting a relationship with someone so bad. I’m only 16 but everything I see on social media like tiktok of cute asian couples I really want it.
Firstly I know it’s haram in our religion, but like even in school everyone else has someone they like and I don’t. I feel like I just want someone like the talking stage seems exciting and just so does everything.
Even though mostly at my age it ends bad I don’t care about that and it’s the fact I don’t have a crush on anyone I know in real life. I see people on social media and be like I would like them if I knew them in real life but there is no one like that - I want to meet someone near my age who I can lol.
I don’t know what to do and obviously I would never tell anyone this irl but I just need advice.
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Even though mostly at my age it ends bad I don’t care about that and it’s the fact I don’t have a crush on anyone I know in real life. I see people on social media and be like I would like them if I knew them in real life but there is no one like that - I want to meet someone near my age who I can lol.
I don’t know what to do and obviously I would never tell anyone this irl but I just need advice.
Even though mostly at my age it ends bad I don’t care about that and it’s the fact I don’t have a crush on anyone I know in real life. I see people on social media and be like I would like them if I knew them in real life but there is no one like that - I want to meet someone near my age who I can lol.
I don’t know what to do and obviously I would never tell anyone this irl but I just need advice.
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I don’t know why but recently this past year I have been wanting a relationship with someone so bad. I’m only 16 but everything I see on social media like tiktok of cute asian couples I really want it.
I don’t know why but recently this past year I have been wanting a relationship with someone so bad. I’m only 16 but everything I see on social media like tiktok of cute asian couples I really want it.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So you would go on dates? Are you crushing on white guys?
So you would go on dates? Are you crushing on white guys?
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(Original post by Mohammed_80)
Social media is there to influence you it’s taken over get off it sister, and focus on education studies and continue to prioritise Islam first and In’Sha’Allah, when you are mature and at the right age you will come across someone that’s for you, you got way long ahead of yourself.
Social media is there to influence you it’s taken over get off it sister, and focus on education studies and continue to prioritise Islam first and In’Sha’Allah, when you are mature and at the right age you will come across someone that’s for you, you got way long ahead of yourself.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I don’t know why but recently this past year I have been wanting a relationship with someone so bad. I’m only 16 but everything I see on social media like tiktok of cute asian couples I really want it.
Firstly I know it’s haram in our religion, but like even in school everyone else has someone they like and I don’t. I feel like I just want someone like the talking stage seems exciting and just so does everything.
Even though mostly at my age it ends bad I don’t care about that and it’s the fact I don’t have a crush on anyone I know in real life. I see people on social media and be like I would like them if I knew them in real life but there is no one like that - I want to meet someone near my age who I can lol.
I don’t know what to do and obviously I would never tell anyone this irl but I just need advice.
I don’t know why but recently this past year I have been wanting a relationship with someone so bad. I’m only 16 but everything I see on social media like tiktok of cute asian couples I really want it.
Firstly I know it’s haram in our religion, but like even in school everyone else has someone they like and I don’t. I feel like I just want someone like the talking stage seems exciting and just so does everything.
Even though mostly at my age it ends bad I don’t care about that and it’s the fact I don’t have a crush on anyone I know in real life. I see people on social media and be like I would like them if I knew them in real life but there is no one like that - I want to meet someone near my age who I can lol.
I don’t know what to do and obviously I would never tell anyone this irl but I just need advice.
You only see the good side of the relationships there, which is why you're inclined to want one. Reality is different though, and it's haram as you acknowledge.
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No I don’t crush white guys they aren’t my type lol and idk
No I don’t crush white guys they aren’t my type lol and idk
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Are you from Asia?
Are you from Asia?
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I Guess it must be unusual. Having cravings for relationship
I Guess it must be unusual. Having cravings for relationship
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(Original post by sufys)
Get off of TikTok.
You only see the good side of the relationships there, which is why you're inclined to want one. Reality is different though, and it's haram as you acknowledge.
Get off of TikTok.
You only see the good side of the relationships there, which is why you're inclined to want one. Reality is different though, and it's haram as you acknowledge.
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Loool now ur just making me sound crazy icl this is why I didn’t want to post it but thanks
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Loool now ur just making me sound crazy icl this is why I didn’t want to post it but thanks
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Yeahh I know I do and I think tiktok does influence me but I can’t just go off of it. And about haram i understand I just feel this weird feeling this year and more recently
Yeahh I know I do and I think tiktok does influence me but I can’t just go off of it. And about haram i understand I just feel this weird feeling this year and more recently
It's normal to desire to be in a relationship at your age, yes.
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Thank you so much and I understand what you mean for a while I was thinking if it’s the waswasah getting to me. But I know I have a lot left to go in my life and I will find the right person I just i guess wish I could now and I do meee to prioritise islam more in my life I struggle I can’t lie.
Thank you so much and I understand what you mean for a while I was thinking if it’s the waswasah getting to me. But I know I have a lot left to go in my life and I will find the right person I just i guess wish I could now and I do meee to prioritise islam more in my life I struggle I can’t lie.
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I don’t know why but recently this past year I have been wanting a relationship with someone so bad. I’m only 16 but everything I see on social media like tiktok of cute asian couples I really want it.
Firstly I know it’s haram in our religion, but like even in school everyone else has someone they like and I don’t. I feel like I just want someone like the talking stage seems exciting and just so does everything.
Even though mostly at my age it ends bad I don’t care about that and it’s the fact I don’t have a crush on anyone I know in real life. I see people on social media and be like I would like them if I knew them in real life but there is no one like that - I want to meet someone near my age who I can lol.
I don’t know what to do and obviously I would never tell anyone this irl but I just need advice.
I don’t know why but recently this past year I have been wanting a relationship with someone so bad. I’m only 16 but everything I see on social media like tiktok of cute asian couples I really want it.
Firstly I know it’s haram in our religion, but like even in school everyone else has someone they like and I don’t. I feel like I just want someone like the talking stage seems exciting and just so does everything.
Even though mostly at my age it ends bad I don’t care about that and it’s the fact I don’t have a crush on anyone I know in real life. I see people on social media and be like I would like them if I knew them in real life but there is no one like that - I want to meet someone near my age who I can lol.
I don’t know what to do and obviously I would never tell anyone this irl but I just need advice.
I think most young ppl r like that, even I am. but don't fall for it. ik its not easy. its a battle every day. especially when sin is literally so easy, that u can do it without anyone ever knowing. but fight it, pls. its not easy, nd I can't say it'll get easier. but its not worth it. im 18, nd the ppl ive seen fall into that way of life, truss they're not in a good position rn. its not worth it, as hard as it is. resist the temptation. wallah Allah will reward u. someone once told me, if u try, do u think Allah will be stingy in rewarding u?
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As a Muslim, I wouldn't date or be even in a relationship. Things could escalate into Haram stuff real quick. You are 16, still have a lot of things in life which you should prioritize more. If you like someone, it's best advised to get married. The rest is up to you to decide, good luck!
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