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ngl, but i really want a bf, and i just feel lonely without that 'someone' x
You'll find them, or they will find you.
We all feel like that sometimes, and you're more than welcome to reach out to members on here to chat and connect with.
Original post by Adz2042
You'll find them, or they will find you.
We all feel like that sometimes, and you're more than welcome to reach out to members on here to chat and connect with.


thank u:smile: x
Means a lot x
Original post by LillyTeganLavSul
thank u:smile: x
Means a lot x


anytime.
just remember that you're awesome, and you can do anything you want to in your life. x
Original post by LillyTeganLavSul
ngl, but i really want a bf, and i just feel lonely without that 'someone' x


Have you tried any approaches or methods into liking seeing for that "special one" for example like socialising events etc?
Original post by Adz2042
anytime.
just remember that you're awesome, and you can do anything you want to in your life. x


omggg thanks xx
u 2:smile:
Original post by Mohammed_80
Have you tried any approaches or methods into liking seeing for that "special one" for example like socialising events etc?


yes, im ngl, but ive had so many boyfriends its unbelievable, but they always break my heart x
Original post by LillyTeganLavSul
yes, im ngl, but ive had so many boyfriends its unbelievable, but they always break my heart x


I'm so sorry x. I did not know that life can be that cruel and how they can be so twisted you are a wonderful human-being, and you are doing nothing wrong in seeking what rightfully is yours which is wanting happiness to be reciprocated within your relationships...
Original post by Mohammed_80
I'm so sorry x. I did not know that life can be that cruel and how they can be so twisted you are a wonderful human-being, and you are doing nothing wrong in seeking what rightfully is yours which is wanting happiness to be reciprocated within your relationships...


awww thats so sweet xx
yes, people can be twisted, which is why i dont know where i stand anymore x
Original post by LillyTeganLavSul
awww thats so sweet xx
yes, people can be twisted, which is why i dont know where i stand anymore x


What do you tend to see in the special "one" or the "one" as you've said you had previous boyfriends before is it personality or is it like characteristic based?
Original post by Mohammed_80
What do you tend to see in the special "one" or the "one" as you've said you had previous boyfriends before is it personality or is it like characteristic based?


its everything, personality, characteristics, how someone looks (but not so much anymore) how people treat me,
just everything x
Original post by LillyTeganLavSul
its everything, personality, characteristics, how someone looks (but not so much anymore) how people treat me,
just everything x


Ah I see, respectable. Yeah it's always personality to be honest because appearance can only give impressions whilst with personality that represents the impact.
Original post by LillyTeganLavSul
yes, im ngl, but ive had so many boyfriends its unbelievable, but they always break my heart x

That's because you're only 16 and playing at 'relationships' with equally immature boys. Plenty of time for all that in the future. Concentrate on your studies, as you want to get into uni.
Original post by Anonymous
That's because you're only 16 and playing at 'relationships' with equally immature boys. Plenty of time for all that in the future. Concentrate on your studies, as you want to get into uni.

In what sense is OP playing at relationships when she understands how to handle relationships maturely and responsibly yet there’s irresponsible guys who mistreat her and make her feel hurt and unhappy there’s no reason neither is OP at fault or to blame and if something arises with the right one provided that OP is able to adjust her relationship and studies there’s no reason why she cannot be in a relationship…
Original post by Mohammed_80
In what sense is OP playing at relationships when she understands how to handle relationships maturely and responsibly yet there’s irresponsible guys who mistreat her and make her feel hurt and unhappy there’s no reason neither is OP at fault or to blame and if something arises with the right one provided that OP is able to adjust her relationship and studies there’s no reason why she cannot be in a relationship…

'Many' boyfriends by the age of 16; how serious would those have been as a young teen? Wanting a boyfriend because you are 'lonely'; isn't that the wrong reasonto get involved with someone? And we've only got one side of the story.
Original post by Anonymous
That's because you're only 16 and playing at 'relationships' with equally immature boys. Plenty of time for all that in the future. Concentrate on your studies, as you want to get into uni.


having bfs/gfs is a normal part of being a teenager
Original post by Anonymous
'Many' boyfriends by the age of 16; how serious would those have been as a young teen? Wanting a boyfriend because you are 'lonely'; isn't that the wrong reasonto get involved with someone? And we've only got one side of the story.

I’m sure it was serious but they failed to treat her well.. pursuing a relationship for the purpose to then overcome loneliness and vibe with and make memories is not a wrong reason to get involved provided they can make you happy for you, you feel compatibility, there’s understanding and your able to relate whilst feeling safe and secure..
Original post by Anonymous
That's because you're only 16 and playing at 'relationships' with equally immature boys. Plenty of time for all that in the future. Concentrate on your studies, as you want to get into uni.


Thank u, great advice!!!
and yh, they are so immature x
Original post by LillyTeganLavSul
ngl, but i really want a bf, and i just feel lonely without that 'someone' x


Maybe you should just focus on something physical for now and not get tangled up with feelings.
Original post by Jonross
Maybe you should just focus on something physical for now and not get tangled up with feelings.

yh thanks x:smile:

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