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    Ok, I know there's been loads of threads about this before but basically - me and my boyfriends have tried to have sex about four times. We're using lube, foreplay beforehand...everything... and it is still pretty painful. I've now accepted the fact that I think its going to hurt a lot and next time am going to try to ride it out and swallow the pain. Anyone got any advice to relax during this?! And what are the prcentages of women who have to have their hymen surgically broken because its so tough? Could it be possible this is what causing the problem?

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    You'll just need to get used to it a little more at first - it was incredibly painful the first few times I had sex. Make sure you're doing it with someone you trust, put some music on if you'd prefer, have the lighting how you want it and ask your boyfriend to be as gentle as he can. If you really have a problem, see a doctor?
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    sorry lol - boyfriend....not plural
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    Take up Yoga.
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    practice makes perfect. treat each time like your first as you wont know what to expect, for all you know that could be the time it doesnt hurt and dont think about it, just enjoy the moment, being close to your bf etc good luck, its worth the struggle, sex hurt for ages with me but its so so enjoyable now
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    Practise on yourself? Try and stretch it a bit beforehand?

    Good luck!

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