She does seem quite anti-trans, but she also has some good points I think. For one thing, I agree that trans-sexual/gender issues shouldn't be lumped in with LGB ones. I find it quite strange that they are so often put together. To me they seem to be more or less separate issues. LGB is about who you are attracted to and trans issues are about who you are. I think trans people would be better served by organisations based specifically around their issues because they are generally quite different to LGB issues.
Also I agree to some extent about the MTF person who wanted to be a rape crisis counsellor. It's all well and good to have equal opportunities legislation in the workplace, but it's not always appropriate when that can be detrimental to the work you are doing. Especially when it's something as personal as rape victim counselling. The fact is most female rape victims are not going to be comfortable talking to a counsellor who looks like a man, or even if they do look like a woman, it's likely they wouldn't be comfortable talking to someone who used to be a man. It's not fair to make the counselling organisation hire someone who effectively can't do their job, however unfair it seems on the person who's been turned down for the job. If you're going to blame anyone for it, blame the rape victims for being so gender sensitive. I'm sure you realise how ridiculous that is so maybe the best thing to do is just accept that it's not appropriate to be a rape victim counsellor if you're a trans person.
I think it's an interesting point about how trans people always seem to conform to extreme gender stereotypes. But I suppose it makes sense because if a pre-op MTF transsexual dressed like an average woman, most of the time no one would know they want to be thought of as a woman. Same goes for FTM transsexuals.