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    My girlfriend is annoyed that i watch porn and masturbate quite alot, is she right to be annoyed? I've told her its none of her business but she says it upsets her that i'm 'lusting after other women', hm.

    Its something i've just done regularly while growing up, should i be stopping because she wants me to or is it a personal freedom she's restricting?

    Any advice appreciated
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    That depends on whether she's willing to make up for all the times you can't masturbate or not:p:
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    if she can put up with you wanting to have sex every single time you see her as that's your only outlet, then go for it. if she can't, then she should back off!
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    ask her kindly to stroke you while you both watch the pornos, then everyobody is happy
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    what a useless bird. i mean,l even if she compensates you with no strings bjs and anal it's not like you're with her 24/7.

    dump the bird. get a new improved model
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    i kind of understand where she is coming from because it is like you are saying she is not enough for you

    :suith:
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    Tell her you will stop, and just go crazy when she's not there.

    Delete history :ninja:
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    i wouldn't say 'its none of her business'.lol

    as Slumpy suggested, get her to make up for it.lol
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    Depends on the relationship. Some people are fine with their partners watching porn and some aren't. If your girlfriend really doesn't want you watching porn or masturbating, then it becomes a question of how much you respect her feelings and want to stay with her. However silly and prohibitive you or other people might find her views, she's still your girlfriend and you should aim to keep her happy.
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    Well its been quite a long standing issue, a few months a go we werent getting on and needless to say not having sex, which recently was my excuse for doing it then. But now we're getting on fine and having sex every few days but I still do it.
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    (Original post by Rainbows24)
    i kind of understand where she is coming from because it is like you are saying she is not enough for you

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    wtf? insecure much? it's girls like you who ive the rest a bad name.

    it's so stupid when girl's won't allow a bloke to be a bloke and then wonder why he's unhappy.
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    Also i doubt she will believe me if i say i will stop, because early in the relationship i said i didnt do it at all and a few months ago i told her that i had been lying, which was not a happy time.

    Hmm, sexually I am actually satisfied by her, we have a very good sex life atm. I can see why she's upset but soimetimes when i'm alone in the house a good porno website is too much to resist.
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    True enough Slumpy. If ever a girl comes along that wants sex 10 times a day, 7 days a week, maybe then I'll stop masturbating.

    OP, she's being unreasonable. What you do in your time is up to you.
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    (Original post by Phantom Phoenix)
    Depends on the relationship. Some people are fine with their partners watching porn and some aren't. If your girlfriend really doesn't want you watching porn or masturbating, then it becomes a question of how much you respect her feelings and want to stay with her. However silly and prohibitive you or other people might find her views, she's still your girlfriend and you should aim to keep her happy.
    compromisinng is one thing, but this bird sounds like a tyrant.

    screw her mate
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    she's wrong and you can do it anyway
    she ain't gon' see.
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    I can kinda see her point about the porn.

    But no masturbating? That's unreasonable. We all have needs, I bet she doesn't fancy running to yours at the drop of a hat every single time you need a little relief?
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    i'd never order my gf to stop putting on make up,having periods, whinging and crying during the titanic

    because all of the above are essential parts of being a bird

    so, fair is fair. dont stop your men from knocking a few out and watching hot ass chicks take it up the cornhole online. fair is fair and a man has to do what a man has got to dol
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    Just carry on, she doesn't have to know. Masterbation is normal and you shouldn't have to change for her, she needs to ge tover it

    Unless you are doing it infront of her or something, which i could understand someone not liking. Personally I'd be fine with that too though.
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    (Original post by Rainbows24)
    i kind of understand where she is coming from because it is like you are saying she is not enough for you

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    Please never get a boyfriend. :p:
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    Just...don't tell her?
    And if she asks you, lie. It's none of her business, and aslong as you always delete your history and hide anything related to it, you won't get caught :p:
 
 
 
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