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    if so many women hate the way men are then why dont they just go effin lesbian?

    reallly, please do. less annoying and useless birds to get in the way of a good time
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    Hm, no. You'll have to talk to her about it.
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    Ok, masturbating isn't THE issue. I think she'll cope with me masturbating.

    Porn is the problem. The phrases 'am i not enough' and 'lusting after other women' have come up quite often
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    She's right, if you want a purer relationship
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    if you were ignoring her and just watching porn etc I could understand where shes coming from, but as you said you are both getting on well at the moment so she is being unreasonable, what you do alone is none of her business, its not like you are cheating on her
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    Is she religious?
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    (Original post by kklol)
    i'd never order my gf to stop putting on make up,having periods, whinging and crying during the titanic

    because all of the above are essential parts of being a bird
    D***head, much?
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    Yeah, OP, it's your body and mind, not hers. Anyways, I find the thought of my bf doing it extremely hot!
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    even if it is just porn. it is not a big deal. men are not preprogrammed to be monogamous as it happens girls, **** your fairytales cos i live in the real world of evolution and biological fact. That doesn't mean we should all go cheating on you, in fact a man is far less likely to be compelled to do so if he can fantasise about it.

    i watch porn with my gf a lot. but then she sint a superficial, unintelligent, OMFG, OMG like wtf, barbie doll, caked in make up insecure cow like most birds

    i got myself a good'un lads
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    (Original post by shamrock92)
    She's right, if you want a purer relationship
    Purer in whose sense? If you're arguing from a Catholic/Christian perspective you could dismiss it as impure since it's most likely they are having sex outside marriage, which is forbidden, as it is adultery. You're just offering a view which is socially constructed from your historical, cultural and political context.
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    (Original post by junglemonkey)
    I can see her point about porn but about masturbating? No! As long as you don't lie about it, then what's the problem? Does she not crack them out when you're away? *skeptical*

    Don't lie about it though. You might think you're protecting her, but she'll only feel betrayed when she finds out.

    If you're sexually satisfied then why do you need to masturbate? Is it more habit/boredom than horniness?
    he's. a. bloke. :rolleyes:

    some of you lasses really need to stop waiting for prince charming and step into the real world. who was it who said women aren't as rational as men?

    they had a point. thinking with the heart and not with the head
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    (Original post by kklol)
    what a useless bird. i mean,l even if she compensates you with no strings bjs and anal it's not like you're with her 24/7.

    dump the bird. get a new improved model
    i disagree! she has a right, personally i'd be pissed off if my bf did, okay he might do but he doesnt tell me that he probs does it at night. I'd rather not know. she can compenstate is she's that bothered, but to dump a girl just cause she asked you not to **** is just stupid. x
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    (Original post by junglemonkey)
    If you're sexually satisfied then why do you need to masturbate? Is it more habit/boredom than horniness?
    Mostly habit/boredom. Honestly.

    We have really great sex, however the past few times i havent been able to come because a had masturbated quite recently. (I made her orgasm but she is not happy unless I do) This prompted questions and re-ignited some old problems about the whole porn thing

    However its not about because i didnt ***, its because of the 'lusting after other women 'as i mentioned
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    (Original post by kklol)
    some of you lasses really need to stop waiting for prince charming and step into the real world.
    I have my Prince Charming. And we watch porn together when we're bored. Plus, if he tells me "I'm bored" on MSN, I'll suggest porn and he'll say "Aha, good idea".

    It's perfect.
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    lol.. all the girls are in defence of his girlfriend.
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    If I had a boyfriend and I was satisfied sexually, I'd feel his masturbation/porn-watching was none of my business. :dontknow: That might just be me saying that because I don't have one though! As long as he has no problem with me doing the same whenever I want, I don't think I'd really be bothered.
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    (Original post by lolage)
    i disagree! she has a right, personally i'd be pissed off if my bf did, okay he might do but he doesnt tell me that he probs does it at night. I'd rather not know. she can compenstate is she's that bothered, but to dump a girl just cause she asked you not to **** is just stupid. x
    on the contrary, i'd say any man who doesn't break up with a girl who has asked him to stop behaving like a man is stupid.

    no man can survive without *******. i know women dont understand this but it is true. and she either accepts that or OP is being deceived by a feminist lesbian with no interest in men
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    (Original post by NDGAARONDI)
    Purer in whose sense? If you're arguing from a Catholic/Christian perspective you could dismiss it as impure since it's most likely they are having sex outside marriage, which is forbidden, as it is adultery. You're just offering a view which is socially constructed from your historical, cultural and political context.
    Aren't we all?
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    (Original post by kklol)
    no man can survive without *******. i know women dont understand this but it is true.
    Not really, you just don't do it
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    (Original post by Advanced Subsidiary)
    lol.. all the girls are in defence of his girlfriend.
    hardly instills a faith in birds does it mate?

    domineering creatures
 
 
 
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