This discussion is closed.
ponjavic
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#21
Report 14 years ago
#21
(Original post by commoner)
so u think i should wait and see if he makes the first move? thing is, we've liked each other for weeks and we tend not to speak that often at skool cos i dont think he knows that i know he likes me. congrats if u understood!
If you know,
as I said before,
MAKE THE FIRST MOVE :cool:
0
commoner
Badges: 0
#22
Report Thread starter 14 years ago
#22
two conflicting opinions here!
0
Makavelli_07
Badges: 0
Rep:
?
#23
Report 14 years ago
#23
It depends on what the guy is like. If he's a confident sort of guy, then it won't really matter who makes the first step.

If he's quite shy though, it'd be hard for him to make the first move.
0
ponjavic
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#24
Report 14 years ago
#24
(Original post by Makavelli_07)
It depends on what the guy is like. If he's a confident sort of guy, then it won't really matter who makes the first step.

If he's quite shy though, it'd be hard for him to make the first move.
Yeah so she can't really lose by making the first step,
but if she doesn't nothing might happen
0
bestdeceptions
Badges: 2
Rep:
?
#25
Report 14 years ago
#25
Awww I think you should go for it

Hehe... my friend got with a guy at new year and then only found out afterwards he was in Year 11 (we're in Year 13). She's 18, he's 15! He's still doing his GCSEs! :rofl: How we laughed.

Anyway, back to the point. You should go for it You don't want to regret it later by not doing anything about it.
0
marychrist
Badges: 0
Rep:
?
#26
Report 14 years ago
#26
personally I wouldn't go for anybody younger but if you like him go for it.
0
Wild Thing
Badges: 11
Rep:
?
#27
Report 14 years ago
#27
(Original post by commoner)
so u think i should wait and see if he makes the first move? thing is, we've liked each other for weeks and we tend not to speak that often at skool cos i dont think he knows that i know he likes me. congrats if u understood!
no doooooooooon't!! It's EXACTLY what happened to me!! We nearly never spoke coz we didn't go to the same classes. Anywasy, we had like loads of eye contact and stuff and one day after like 2 weeks lol, i went to speak to him. I asked him if he could lend me his history notes coz i had lost my notes on unit 1 (yea right :rolleyes:) . Point is we talked a bit and hten i gave them back and ten he asked for for notes or something and so it kinda went like that. One day he added me on MSN (i have no idea hoe he got my adress) and then we got on talking...point is that after that i kinda made the first move and he didn't like the situation that teh 'older' person was like kind of dominating the relationship. Then it too him like 1 week to decide that he wanted to go out with me though before he had made it obvious, meanwhile my honor was far more important and so we left it like that.
moral of the story...men are a weird specie :aetsch: :creep:
0
Wild Thing
Badges: 11
Rep:
?
#28
Report 14 years ago
#28
(Original post by ponjavic)
Yeah so she can't really lose by making the first step,
but if she doesn't nothing might happen
not if she makes loads of eye contact with him and make it obvious that she likes him WITHOUT telling him...he'll get the point and she'll mantain her honor!!!
0
Wild Thing
Badges: 11
Rep:
?
#29
Report 14 years ago
#29
(Original post by ponjavic)
You don't have to act tall, you could just say my statement was incorrect
:hmpf: fine!!!
I'm not THAT short come on..i'm normal heigh :bebored: ..i ain't 'little' as you put it.
And i don't know if your statement is incorrect..how would I know what type of people are attracted to you??? :confused: :rolleyes:
0
ponjavic
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#30
Report 14 years ago
#30
(Original post by wild thing)
not if she makes loads of eye contact with him and make it obvious that she likes him WITHOUT telling him...he'll get the point and she'll mantain her honor!!!
You mean so she doesn't have a chance of being initially rejected like you were?
Not really a good reason not to hit on him since she knows he likes her :aetsch:
0
Wild Thing
Badges: 11
Rep:
?
#31
Report 14 years ago
#31
(Original post by ponjavic)
You mean so she doesn't have a chance of being initially rejected like you were?
Not really a good reason not to hit on him since she knows he likes her :aetsch:
heeeeeeeeey :bawling: u mean mean MEAN MEAN MEAN MEAN person (do you get the point?)
he had told me that he liked me but i meant first step as asking out...we both told eachother we liked eachother and then i was like :confused: 'ask me out you idiot!' But he didnt so i did and then he went away HAHAHAHAHA lol...thing is next day he avoided me so i was like: fine, piss off! ANd then like 4 days afterwards he said: i wanted to ask you out..i didnt want you to be in control of the relationship blah blah blah and then goes: do you still want to go out with me, coz i do. And i went: naah man..that wa 4 days ago.
muhahaha.
So there I wasn't intially rejected :mad: :mad: *adds Mr. P to ignore list*
0
ponjavic
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#32
Report 14 years ago
#32
(Original post by wild thing)
heeeeeeeeey :bawling: u mean mean MEAN MEAN MEAN MEAN person (do you get the point?)
he had told me that he liked me but i meant first step as asking out...we both told eachother we liked eachother and then i was like :confused: 'ask me out you idiot!' But he didnt so i did and then he went away HAHAHAHAHA lol...thing is next day he avoided me so i was like: fine, piss off! ANd then like 4 days afterwards he said: i wanted to ask you out..i didnt want you to be in control of the relationship blah blah blah and then goes: do you still want to go out with me, coz i do. And i went: naah man..that wa 4 days ago.
muhahaha.
So there I wasn't intially rejected :mad: :mad: *adds Mr. P to ignore list*
The hi-jacking days are over layingba
0
Wild Thing
Badges: 11
Rep:
?
#33
Report 14 years ago
#33
(Original post by ponjavic)
The hi-jacking days are over layingba
not if you say sorry for staining my honor :rolleyes:
0
ponjavic
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#34
Report 14 years ago
#34
(Original post by wild thing)
not if you say sorry for staining my honor :rolleyes:
Your honor is untouchable :eek:
Sorry for questioning it
0
Wild Thing
Badges: 11
Rep:
?
#35
Report 14 years ago
#35
(Original post by ponjavic)
Your honor is untouchable :eek:
Sorry for questioning it
mmm i'll think about it

*thinks*

apology accepted :p: :shakehand :wink:
0
ponjavic
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#36
Report 14 years ago
#36
(Original post by commoner)
two conflicting opinions here!
Tell us how it goes!
0
commoner
Badges: 0
#37
Report Thread starter 14 years ago
#37
thanx guys really appreciate ur debate goin on! we have looooaaads of eye contact its ridiculous but i think both of us are too proud to ask the other out (or more like afraid of rejection!) hes also imposssible to talk to on msn im tryin to talk to him on msn and hes like all one wordy but apparently hes like that with every1...soooo annoyin cos msn can b used as such a flirtin tool but as hes so one worded...grr!
0
Wild Thing
Badges: 11
Rep:
?
#38
Report 14 years ago
#38
(Original post by commoner)
thanx guys really appreciate ur debate goin on! we have looooaaads of eye contact its ridiculous but i think both of us are too proud to ask the other out (or more like afraid of rejection!) hes also imposssible to talk to on msn im tryin to talk to him on msn and hes like all one wordy but apparently hes like that with every1...soooo annoyin cos msn can b used as such a flirtin tool but as hes so one worded...grr!
OMG!!! that's exactly what happened with me!! :eek:
yeah we had like 1000000000000 eye contacts per day and they lasted like 1 sec lol. And i kept thinkin...luniah you idiot, you're 17 for ****'s sake! get a move on. But my pride and honor kept me back from it..AND his answers on MSN were limited to *ok* all the time :rolleyes:
good luck Miss Commoner!!! Hope your story ends better than mine :p: (which isn't too hard really)
0
ponjavic
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#39
Report 14 years ago
#39
(Original post by wild thing)
OMG!!! that's exactly what happened with me!! :eek:
yeah we had like 1000000000000 eye contacts per day and they lasted like 1 sec lol. And i kept thinkin...luniah you idiot, you're 17 for ****'s sake! get a move on. But my pride and honor kept me back from it..AND his answers on MSN were limited to *ok* all the time :rolleyes:
good luck Miss Commoner!!! Hope your story ends better than mine :p: (which isn't too hard really)
That name has anything to do with the moon? :confused:
0
commoner
Badges: 0
#40
Report Thread starter 14 years ago
#40
thanx sooooo much! il keep u posted...
if i knew how i could giv u rep i would! but i dont think i can cos im relatively new!
0
X
new posts
Back
to top
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

How has the start of this academic year been for you?

Loving it - gonna be a great year (113)
17.77%
It's just nice to be back! (173)
27.2%
Not great so far... (227)
35.69%
I want to drop out! (123)
19.34%

Watched Threads

View All