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At lunchtimes

I talk this girl and say i am talking to her after a lesson and walking into playground during lunchtime. She will go to meet her friends or something like that. I want to join them cause i want to get to know this girl but i don't know how to . As in i don't just want to tag along uninvited. (only place i get good advice is TSR so thanks)

Anyway, anyone got any tips, ideas, advice?

Reply 1

plz help it all i can think about today

Reply 2

The playground? XD Are you 6?

Reply 3

haha ok sorry the general meeting area thingy

Reply 4

Uhm, we could do with knowing how old you are as it depends on what you should do. If your fairly young (13ish or below) then try and get them on their own and don't bother going with her to her friends - you will get embarrased and it will be awkward. If your a little older and you know her friends then by all means tag along - I would think they would be mature enough to deal with you and incorperate you into the conversation.

Failing that, see what she is doing at the weekend. Go see a film or something and spend some time together. Be subtle though :smile:

Reply 5

I am 16, in a Sixth form college

Reply 6

You could always find an excuse for why you need to see her friends too (eg.help with an assignment borrowing something) and go with her to meet them and then linger around her for a bit...

Reply 7

Have a good male friend or two with you next time, and ALL of you go sit together. Then you can focus your attention on the girl you like while your friends distract her friends.
If you're not willing to let your friends know you like this girl yet, tell one of them that you think one of this girl's friends (a pretty one!) fancies him and you should all spend lunch together to see what they're like.
Good luck! :smile:

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