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Well as some of you guys know I had a bad smear a few weeks back. Finally had the cells removed and all is well there, results have come back and all is clear on that front.

I also had an endoscopy done on my uterus as well. I've had endometriosis for years now and the damage has been such that I was told I would never have children (uterine wall was damaged as well as fallopian tubes)-that was 7 years ago. The endoscopy showed that there is a chance that I maybe able to carry a child if I were to fall pregnant in the next 2 years (though I would have to have IVF as my eggs dont go to my uterus!)

I've accepted I'll never have children as have my family and partner but my partners family didnt react so well when they found out and were telling my partner that he'll bever be able to have his own children with me and could he live without not having his own children etc and this was only in the first few months of dating!! Now they have found out this news they were getting all excited at the prospect of the new baby etc and I was like whoah! It aint happening. I'm in no way ready to have a child emotionally or financially and just becasue there is a chance I could be pregnant doesnt mean I should right?

So anyway no they're sniping and calling me selfish etc and I'm now hiding with the phones unhooked online! Tell me that I'm right and I'm not being selfish

ps thanks for reading this and sorry its so long xx
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if u want kid then thats your decision. just because u can have a kid now, doesnt mean u have to take it. mayb in a few years once ur ready u might be able to have kids
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(Original post by frost105)
Well as some of you guys know I had a bad smear a few weeks back. Finally had the cells removed and all is well there, results have come back and all is clear on that front.

I also had an endoscopy done on my uterus as well. I've had endometriosis for years now and the damage has been such that I was told I would never have children (uterine wall was damaged as well as fallopian tubes)-that was 7 years ago. The endoscopy showed that there is a chance that I maybe able to carry a child if I were to fall pregnant in the next 2 years (though I would have to have IVF as my eggs dont go to my uterus!)

I've accepted I'll never have children as have my family and partner but my partners family didnt react so well when they found out and were telling my partner that he'll bever be able to have his own children with me and could he live without not having his own children etc and this was only in the first few months of dating!! Now they have found out this news they were getting all excited at the prospect of the new baby etc and I was like whoah! It aint happening. I'm in no way ready to have a child emotionally or financially and just becasue there is a chance I could be pregnant doesnt mean I should right?

So anyway no they're sniping and calling me selfish etc and I'm now hiding with the phones unhooked online! Tell me that I'm right and I'm not being selfish

ps thanks for reading this and sorry its so long xx

:eek: Woah, that's so unfair! Tell your partner's family that it won't be just his child; you have the right to have a say, its your body at the end of the day. Selfishness doesn't come into it - no one should be forced to into making a decision of that magnitude.

good luck with whatever you decide to do.
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I clicked on this thread with every intention of making you laugh... but now I don't really feel like it .

PS - you're right and not being selfish
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(Original post by Zapsta)
I clicked on this thread with every intention of making you laugh... but now I don't really feel like it .

PS - you're right and not being selfish
Ah give me a giggle
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http://www.boreme.com/ - Funny website, try that always good for a laugh

hope you feel better.
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