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    Its the first time Im going shopping with her, so how much should I treat her? Obviously I'll buy us food and stuff but just how much should I splash out on her?

    Also, usually we just go to parks and stuff for romantic walks. Kinda running out of places to go to though. Apart from walks/shopping/cines, where could I take her?
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    £20 will do, wait until christmas to spend anymore:yep:
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    Why not let her spend her own money?
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    I go shopping with my boyfriend and we spend our money on ourselves not each other, it's just nice being in his company
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    Are you serious here? You can't live even the basic parts of your own life without consulting the internet first? Spend what you want/can afford. Go and do what you want. We don't know.
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    Buy her shoes. And clothes. She will thank you for it in the form of sex.
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    (Original post by SillyFencer)
    Are you serious here? You can't live even the basic parts of your own life without consulting the internet first? Spend what you want/can afford. Go and do what you want. We don't know.
    100% agreed.
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    (Original post by SillyFencer)
    Are you serious here? You can't live even the basic parts of your own life without consulting the internet first? Spend what you want/can afford. Go and do what you want. We don't know.
    AGREE
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    (Original post by SillyFencer)
    Are you serious here? You can't live even the basic parts of your own life without consulting the internet first? Spend what you want/can afford. Go and do what you want. We don't know.

    If you dont know, then dont say anything.
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    (Original post by pkiy)
    If you dont know, then dont say anything.
    And what exactly is there to know? :rolleyes:
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    Eh? Give her money?

    That would only be acceptable if she has washed, ironed or darned your clothing, cooked your meals or waxed your car.
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    I'm sure she won't expect you to spend anything on her for clothes etc... unless you've said that you're taking her shopping. The thread says that she's taking you - so sort of making you go with her? In which case, I make my boyfriend come out with me and don't expect him to spend anything on me.
    If you want to though then it doesn't have to be much. If she see's a nice top or cheap jewellery she likes and you can afford you could offer to buy her something like that.
    Otherwise just buy her a drink and you should be fine

    As for other things to do you could try bowling, swimming, ice skating, anything like that. But those cost money so romantic walks and just spending time at each others houses should be good.
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    (Original post by Lell)
    Buy her shoes. And clothes. She will thank you for it in the form of sex.
    Agreed
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    Ice skating is fun!
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    God, if she expects you buy her things, forget the shopping & skip right to the end of the relationship.
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    (Original post by Lell)
    Buy her shoes. And clothes. She will thank you for it in the form of sex.
    Agreed.

    (Though obv relationships shouldn't be about money, but treating a girl is nice)
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    (Original post by Smack)
    Why not let her spend her own money?
    He's so womantic!!
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    (Original post by caroline147)
    God, if she expects you buy her things, forget the shopping & skip right to the end of the relationship.
    Marry me??
    You sound like my ideal woman :P
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    I dont think she expects you to pay for her stuff, but if you would like to, I'm sure she'll be happy, tho she might not accept it. As other have said, just spend as much as you can afford to. Dont need to break your bank.

    I never expect my bf to pay for me, i already feel bad when he doesn't want to take money from me when i asked him to get me stuff like milk or bread.
 
 
 
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