We both are late 20's shes been here a few years.
We had a instant attraction and shes basically what many men would consider "perfect"
Beautiful, sweet and intelligent, has a job.
Here is where the issues I have come in though.
Shes a bit too traditional.
She does all the chores, cooking, cleaning on top of her job and gets upset and has even cried when I have done as little as wash a plate before as she says its her job and its her way of showing love and by doing it its saying she is bad at it. She even insists on making me a packed lunch every day, not talking sandwiches but actual food, she also likes to spend 1-2 hours in evening just cooking.
She tells me to sit on chair and watch sports and drink alcohol, I don't drink and I feel guilty.
She is submissive to point where I may ask for ideas on something to do or somewhere to go as bored and she just smiles and says "you are the man, you decide"
I feel uncomfortable as I am the sort of person who likes feedback (I have mild aspergers) as thats how my brain makes decisions.
Not sure what to do as it sounds like a dream but it is very uncomfortable for me and if I mention I want to help she gets upset.
I know her family is very traditional too, they hate the idea she is dating a non Russian man, her grandparents live in same house as her parents and she was expected to marry there and have her husband live in same house too.
The only things she is set on which is fine is we cannot make love without protection until marriage.