I'm so confused right now.. I've been in a relationship for about 15 months now with a really cute and lovely girl. We met about 3 years ago on the internet and started dating after a while. I'm 21 and she is 20.
There are quite a few problems i'm having right now. First of all (despite saying she loves me - after i say it to her) she never seems to demonstrate ANY sort of 'random' affection... be it a kiss, cuddle, 'i like you'.. She is also a very joking person and often when asked 'has she missed me' or something along those lines she will 'jokingly' say that she hasn't. I dont usually mind but when you constantly hear that your gf hasn't missed you after long periods apart it does get to you after a while. She also seems to find it hard to make eye contact with me (which obviously dont help my own insecurities - which may i add are relatively none... i'm not overly confident but im generally happy with myself).
Very recently i have even contemplated dumping her... but i genuinely think im in love with her... well more so when we actually meet because we generally do connect really well and rarely argue. I just miss being in a relationship with a girl who is a tad more spontaneous - who will come and see me (she also NEVER visits me unless i pretty much plan it) when im feeling down, or just because she wants to. I feel very unappreciated in this relationship.
It isn't that easy dumping a 15 month gf (who you connect well with) by the way so keep that in mind with any advice you have
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- Thread Starter
- 13-11-2008 05:17
- 13-11-2008 05:24
Are you a girl?
- 13-11-2008 09:44
Some people are just unaffectionate as a general rule. Like me!