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    Ok so I feel really infatuated with this girl at the moment, she is funny, pretty etc. It is like i have been with boys in the past. I don't think of her sexually though as I don't of boys either! If you are gay do you have to feel sexually attracted to them?
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    huh?
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    are you a boy or a girl?
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    I get you. Errm, I'd say you'd feel some attraction, but I wouldn't know.
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    It sounds more like a hero-worship / idolisation kind of deal to me.

    I know where you're coming from...occasionally I meet someone (could be of either sex), and just think 'you're AMAZING!'. It's good to know people who possess qualities you aspire to have yourself.

    Theres nothing wrong with that, I dont think you're actually gay unless you feel sexually attracted them
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    I think OP is a guy

    What you are feeling is normal
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    (Original post by Rokit)
    I think OP is a guy

    What you are feeling is normal
    Are you sure? They said something about feeling attracted to the girl...like they had been to boys in the past?

    Meh...spose it is quite an ambiguous post...well whatever, if they're not sexually attracted to the person then I dont reckon its an indicator of whether or not they're gay
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    The only way to resolve this beyond doubt is to ask the object of your affection if she fancies a spot of cunnilingus. There really is no other way around this, sorry.
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    Oh i'm a girl
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    Oh i'm a girl
    Aha I knew it! :p:

    I still dont think you're gay....unless youre actually sexually attracted to another girl (and even that wouldnt necessarily make you gay)
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    i dont think you are "gay" if you are not sexually attracted to a girl. However i would say do what you feel is right dont feel caged by peoples opinions etc. Good Luck just follow your heart!
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    try it. experiment. you never know!
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    thanks guys!
 
 
 
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