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Deep down, is the most important thing for a boy/man is his father's respect? Watch

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    I think deep down it's important to respect yourself so that it teaches you to have respect for all people, not just your father
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    If we're talking strictly Freud / Psychoanalytic terms, technically the most important thing would be his mothers love. Yeah. Oedipus style.
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    Definately not for my brother.
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    (Original post by Phil2008)
    No. My dad has never motivated me to acheive anything in life, never told me to make him proud etc so I couldn't care less about his respect.
    Same here. On results days it's always a pat on the back and a quiet well done, which is better than something silly like £100 per A* or your parents buying you a car for passing your driving test, in my opinion.

    Although a physical reward would still be nice :cool: (only joking :p:)
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    It would depend on whether or not you were brought up with traditional values. i.e. not swearing at your parents, its actually quite shocking when I see the way some of my mates speak to their parents.
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    personally i dont think so, me and my dad really dont get on and while at heart we are more alike then we like to admit i cant say i am overly fond of him (dont get me wrong i love my dad but i dont like him as a person). it all really dates back to my childhood and how he ignored me but gave his focus on my sisters.

    so if i was pinning my life to gaining his respect i would be waiting for a long time and to be frank i wouldnt want it anyway
 
 
 
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