I really really recommend not using the numbing creme as without it the pain is non-existent. You will literally feel the tiniest sensation when the needle goes in. After that, 5 seconds later, one tube is filled up and they stick the cotton wool on. JOB DONE!
I was terrified of getting a blood test done due to my fear of needles and the sensation of the needle going in (the pain did not bother me) and I was unable to do two blood tests due to being so scared. I chickened out and almost began crying in the nurses office twice. However, then I had to go into the ER and they had to do a blood test. I asked them to try it in my hand first and to put the cannula in my hand too. I didn't feel anything whatsoever, so when the blood did not come out of my hand, I was ready to have it done in my arm. I had the loveliest ER doctor who was so gentle. I only ever felt slight discomfort when he replaced the full tubes for new ones (as they had to take out like 5 tubes of blood). He also kept my arm slightly bent which made me feel much better than keeping it straight!! There was also a nurse there who was so lovely and just chatted to me throughout the whole procedure about movies and the avengers. overall, that was the best first blood test I could have ever asked for.
A few months go by and I need another blood test. this time its only one tube and I was so scared leading up to it. I knew however, that I had to get this blood test done as it would determine my health. going in with that mindset did not mean that I was not scared and anxious, however It did really motivate me. I decided to go in all by myself, without my mum. I mainly did this because when she was in the room, I used to feel pressured to do it and when I used to chicken out, I felt like I disappointed her. so I wanted to show her that yes I can do it! the nurse was so lovely. I asked her to lay down and she put my arm on a cushion. I also asked her to distract me by talking to me. she felt for a good vein for about 30 seconds and then said she would start the blood test. she asked me about my alevels and during my answer. she put the needle in and I didn't feel anything. (some might feel a small scratch but that's it, however I personally felt nothing) after keeping it in for 5 seconds, she pulled the needle out and I was so confused. I was like was that it?? I felt nothing. she said that is good and that is how its supposed to be. you should not feel any sort of massive pain or discomfort.
to conclude, I had the best docs/nurses do my blood tests so that really helped. bring water if you are prone to fainting after blood tests. the water bottle can also act as a stress ball If you want to tense up your other arm, just keep talking or distracting yourself while getting it done, talk to the nurse and ask if you can lay down. tell them if you are nervous as they can and will help you and make you feel as comfortable as possible. lastly, it takes 5 seconds to fill a tube and the pain is equivalent to a papercut, once you put that into perspective, you will be able to do it. if you are like me and just hate the sensation of the needle going in, breath in while the needle is going in and breath out while the blood is being drawn. this will calm you down and release some of that pain. and just remember 5 seconds of discomfort for a healthy and happy life! if you have any questions, feel free to message me!