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    Anyone else get these feelings at parties they go to?
    Every party I go to there's separate circles of people which seem impossible to get into, so I end up just having to follow my friends around all night...

    More attractive people getting with each other, people smoking or doing drugs ostracizing others.

    Each party basically leaves me more depressed now.
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    You aint got no game that means , if you have game al you really have to do is eye contact with a person of your choice walk over and talk simple
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    Learn some dance moves, that helps in situations, but mostly in clubs.

    Also just go in brash and talk to folk, no need to feel intimidated.
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    Use the best weapon to your advantage, alcohol.

    It brings confidence hehe.
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    At least you get invited!
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    (Original post by Shadow!)
    Use the best weapon to your advantage, alcohol.

    It brings confidence hehe.
    Not everyone gets confidence from alcohol, if anything it makes me worse in social situations. Unfortunately there isn't some magic fix to getting that confidence boost, however if you make yourself look confident and interesting, or just randomly start chatting to someone in a scenario for example talking to someone whilst getting another drink, or grabbing a free seat and joining in with the conversation. It can be hard but the only way it will happen is if you go out and do it.
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    (Original post by Nynyflower)
    At least you get invited!
    Positive thinking right there ladies and gentlemen :yep:
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    they just people doe
    like you n i.
    :shifty: wut?
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    I was like that at like, my first party.
    Just loosen up a bit and talk to everyone - that's what I do.
    Hahaha I usually walk by myself into random rooms and talk to people and walk off again...
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    Don't go then.
    Do things in life that make you feel good, and good about yourself.
    Parties, whilst good, are just bad with the wrong people.
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    Ecstasy.
 
 
 
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