(Original post by Rokit)
No I stand by my words. Why would you go over to your boyfriend and say "Oh I had a chat with K yesterday and he said he likes me" What would you expect your boyfriend to say? Clearly you are trying to get a reaction out of him
Err... I can tell you, as a bloke, that I'd much prefer that to the alternative. If my girlfriend told me that about someone she knows, we'd have a laugh about it because I'm 100% secure in my relationship with her and I know that some other bloke having a thing for her has absolutely no bearing on us. She'd not be interested in the bloke, at all, so why does it matter that he likes her? It doesn't. It's the sort of thing you say "Ahaha, aww shame, poor bloke with a crush" about, have a giggle, and forget about. Or joke about it later, whatever. I'd not even have a problem with the other guy for it. Why
he like her? I'd just pity him a bit, with his unrequited love
What you're suggesting is altogether more suspicious. You're saying that, after being told all this by the guy, she should have kept it to herself. Then what if her boyfriend finds out from someone else? THAT'S when I'd be a bit "wtf?
". Simply because I'd wonder why she was keeping it secret. If it means nothing (to her) then it should be treated as such.
So... hmm... yeah I think you're completely wrong that she shouldn't have told him. He shouldn't have reacted the way he did - he should be secure enough to trust her not to return the feelings and be like "haw haw haw, poor bloke, crying himself to sleeps".
Basically OP: This "K" bloke might still like you, or he might not... if you don't feel the same and have no intentions of cheating on your boyfriend, then it's completely irrelevant whether he does or not. Just make sure your boyfriend knows that. If he trusts you it should be more than enough, if he doesn't then you have bigger problems that have nothing to do with "K".