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Not bisexual but I really want to watch

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    I'm not bisexual, I wouldn't date a girl, but I really want to go all the way with one. I've got with girls before, but not any futher than getting off with and groping, I find them more physically attractive than men, and I keep watching lesbian porn, which makes me scarily turned on. Before someone says it's a phase, I've felt this way for about 3 years (I'm 17)
    I'm insanely highly sexed and normal sex doesn't always feel enough, I really want to try something different. I have a boyfriend and I'm not really sure if I should talk to him about this.


    Help please?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm not bisexual, I wouldn't date a girl, but I really want to go all the way with one. I've got with girls before, but not any futher than getting off with and groping, I find them more physically attractive than men, and I keep watching lesbian porn, which makes me scarily turned on. Before someone says it's a phase, I've felt this way for about 3 years (I'm 17)
    I'm insanely highly sexed and normal sex doesn't always feel enough, I really want to try something different. I have a boyfriend and I'm not really sure if I should talk to him about this.


    Help please?

    I feel the same as you, I'm nearly 17.

    I have a bf but I'm also really attracted to females and i really want to 'go all the way with one too'. I have kissed girls before and things but nothing much more. I really wish there was someone I could talk to this about or experiment with.
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    Talk about same situation!
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    Well I think your boyfriend would react with jubilation so why not talk to him about it! :p:
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    Its not a phase you're either bisexual or lesbian. The only reason your feeling more attracted to girls right now is because you supressed it for so long. You have to realise your bisexual, maybe even have a few experiences. If you keep supressing it its gonna get worse. Just realise who you are, your brain is trying to tell you something. Its NOT a phase. You like girls. If you're also physically attracted to guys then your bisexual. If not then your lesbian. Either way. You have to realised you are who you are and come out of the closet. Sorry if its a bit harsh but i felt like being a bit blunt with you. It might help you out more :P
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    "I'm not bi-sexual but I want to do it with a girl and I find boys attractive"8-)

    you knows it's not a crime to be bi-sexual?

    I think you should experiment, and have a few one night stands with some girls, but you're in a relationship which makes it complicated.
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    as for me - my boyfriend didn't react that way he said he doesn't want a threesome he wants me all to him! which i don't want...
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    You say you're not bisexual, and then you say that you're attracted to women (and men, by the implication of a having a boyfriend).

    Maybe you are?
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    If there is one thing that is certain you are bi-sexual. I mean at the very least most people are bisexual and you are definetly more bisexual than most.

    There are lesbians out there who have done less than you have with girls.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I find them more physically attractive than men, and I keep watching lesbian porn, which makes me scarily turned on.
    Help please?
    Ditto, but then again I am a lad
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    omg im the same haha.
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    The magic word "threesome" comes to mind .
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I feel the same as you, I'm nearly 17.

    I have a bf but I'm also really attracted to females and i really want to 'go all the way with one too'. I have kissed girls before and things but nothing much more. I really wish there was someone I could talk to this about or experiment with.
    I'd say let's talk about it, but it's kind of hard with the double anon going on.
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    You're sexually attracted to girls and guys...you sure you're not bi?
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    Are you sure you're not bisexual...?
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    I definately do find girls more attractive, but I'd never have a relationship other than sexual with a girl, so I don't think that makes me bisexual.
    I get really annoyed with silly little girls going through phases or just trying to get attention by saying they're bisexual when they're obviously not.
    A friend of mine pertains to be bi yet she's never even kissed or fancied a girl.

    I'm worried about people finding out aswell, I'm not ashamed but at the same time it's not something I'd go shouting about and I wouldn't want to freak people out.
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    Im the same. Ive had boyfriends since high school, I love the relationship with one but I so want to go all the way with a girl.

    Maybe its just a phase...although Ive felt like it for 6-7 years and it shows no sign of going away lol.
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    I'd say let's talk about it, but it's kind of hard with the double anon going on.
    Oh No. How are we going to manage this?

    I'd like to talk about it too. I can't de-anon myself my boyfriend comes on here!
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    I'm really sorry to be the next anon person. Same-ish position as you - 17 and I like girls and it scares me that I feel like that. Friends have told me that it's just a phase, that will pass but with every experience, I find that it makes it stronger. But I guess there are so many who are afraid to talk about it.
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    We need some kind of society for this, for girls with bfs who can't work out how they feel!
    Ahhh.
 
 
 
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