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Girls - How do you flirt with guys? watch

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    This is to all the girls -

    How do you flirt with guys - like what are the signals you give to a guy to tell him you like him or are at least interested in him?

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    I am crap at flirting.
    My common technique is good old eye contact, shows interest.
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    Cheeky smile, kind of a smirk ;D
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    (Original post by impossible!)
    I am crap at flirting.
    My common technique is good old eye contact, shows interest.
    can't that be seen as just been interested in a guy as in a friend?
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    laugh and smile a lot... touching, cuddly (im generally flirty person though)
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    lol flirting...whats that? i just come out and tell people lol
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    can't that be seen as just been interested in a guy as in a friend?
    Ah I know what I mean, it does show a different the way I do it, I wouldnt look at a friend the same way id look at someone who I was interested in. Lol
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    just wink your eyes. or by another easy way just tell him your feeling.
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    talk to them
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    erm few main things

    -take an interest in what he does uni/work and things hes likes
    -pretend to hit more like a tap on his shoulder
    -cuddle or draw on hands..any excude to touch, really, lol
    -probably twirl hair with hands and head bent to side when talking
    -when sitting beside sit close for knees to touch or as if your knees or hands are pointing in their direction
    -smiling and laughing

    hope that helps
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    Unzip his trousers.
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    I think asking girls on a forum wont get any realistic answers. They probably flirt using a pink coloured font and use lots of xoxoxoxox's
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    Wow, girls flirt so subtly... Having read this, I think I've probably been flirted with loads of times, without even noticing

    Make it more obvious please :p:
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    (Original post by J-E-N-O-V-A)
    I think asking girls on a forum wont get any realistic answers. They probably flirt using a pink coloured font and use lots of xoxoxoxox's
    Steady on, we're not ****s - we'd poke the chap on Facebook first.
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    (Original post by Amy_J)
    Steady on, we're not ****s - we'd poke the chap on Facebook first.
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    (Original post by LH123)
    Unzip his trousers.
    lol... i think that would defeat the whole point of the subtlety of flirting...
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    (Original post by Banu_Hashim)
    lol... i think that would defeat the whole point of the subtlety of flirting...
    Who said flirting had to be subtle?
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    a girl who likes a guy that way...generally always takes an interest in things you like, smiles alot, always happens to end up talking or making a point of talkgin abot something only you and th other person was involved in or were at...etc also or tries to sit beside you, letting each other drink from each others drinks, pretending to hit....we also fish for compliments, lol back to try and see what you say....gives an idea if your interested or not....if you like a girl...and you think she likes back...if she starts to cuddle, cuddle back and look for signs i mentioned above...but sometimes girls may be friendly so just be careful you dont ruin anything lke the friendship
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    Okay so other girls have answered above....so guys you can be just as confusing...so how do youz flirt with girls? what kinda of things/actions/say to think your letting us know?
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    I act kind of shy, probably blush a hell of a lot, and keep smiling But that's kind of accidental... apparantly according to behaviourists, girls tend to tilt their heads to the left (unconciously).. probably because the right side of the brain is doing something or other.. then they tend to touch the guy, just on the arm or something.. and at first act shy, smiling and making eye contact, waiting for the guy to pounce Then to finish that all off they touch their hair quite a bit, and try to draw attention to *ahem their chest.. then lick their lips.. (and apparantly their lips swell up due to hormones or something).
    And yes, this is all done unconciously.. I saw it in a documentary, I'm that sad
 
 
 
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