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    Ok, so me and my boyfriend just ended up having a minor argument via text, and I was just wondering if I'm right to be annoyed.

    Basically, he's gone away for the weekend, was ill but feeling better, I was asking if he was gonna go out;

    Him: Well its a floor party, can't avoid it. Won't drink much but I'll hang out with them all... hope you're not mad at me or anything for abandoning you...
    Me: No, it's cool... miss you though! x
    -couple hours later-
    Me: That last text was kinda your cue to reassure me that you miss me too :p: Hehe, nevermind
    Him: I already said in my last text that I miss you, but yeah I still do! You still ok?
    Me: No, you didn't... but okies. You having fun?
    Him: No need to get arsey, i've said I miss you loads, I've texted you loads- when you were busy on Thursday you never contacted until I did first, so don't be mad
    (On Thursday I had to switch my phone off for part of the evening cos my friend's mental dad kept ringing me, but did text and phone later)
    Me: When the hell was I arsey?
    Him: Just then lol, and the last 2. Chill, I'm allowed to be away for a couple of nights, whilst still texting loads! Again, please don't be mad.

    The suggestion that I'm not ok with him being away for a couple of nights, being arsey etc. kinda pissed me off. Am I being overly clingy with my texts or something?
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    I should mention that the above is the build up to the argument, not the actual argument lol...
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    It's a bit clingy, yes.
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    It's one of those stupid arguments that couples have for no real reason. Apologise to him, he'll apologise to you, you'll both feel stupid and have make-up sex later. Sorted. :p:
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    Hah yeah you're being overly clingy and picky. Don't start fights out of anything and everything. Its not healthy. Give the guy some latitude. heres an example " no, you didn't...but okies " . Im not saying its really that provocative but...even if he didnt, try pointing it out less, you were kinda asking for a fight there. Even tho im NOT saying your wrong and that you caused a fight, im just saying stop pointing out those things :P it usually causes fights over nothing. Usually, just ignore em
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    No offense but I think you're a bit in the wrong. You did get a bit arsey and you sound a bit clingy, just chill out a bit and hopefully he will loosen up a bit too.
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    On reflection, you should be more concerned about your friend's 'mental dad' who keeps ringing you - what's that about?
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    (Original post by LaurenFah)
    It's a bit clingy, yes.
    yeah I think so too...u dont really have a proper reason to be annoyed
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    You are

    for demanding so much goddam attention and reassurance...
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    Yeah, based purely on the above you come across as clingy and like you're just picking on things.
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    (Original post by Arielle)
    No offense but I think you're a bit in the wrong. You did get a bit arsey and you sound a bit clingy, just chill out a bit and hopefully he will loosen up a bit too.
    To be fair getting annoyed at me for being clingy is a bit rich from someone who rang me up twice in the middle of the night because he had a dream about me cheating... but yeah, I should prolly go and apologise.
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    Hahaha!!! OMG lol !! Alright so ur not the only one who's clingy. Still you should both try and stop being clingy. Also, dont apologise, not in a situation like this. You were both in the wrong, But it wasnt that big of a thing. Just let it wash over. Don't bear any resentment to it. Just forget about it and act normal.
 
 
 
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