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    Ok, so I basically have a guy best friend. I have feelings for him but doesn't feel the same way, which he makes very clear. Its kinda hurt me but we are still best friends and we get along great. A few nights ago we we both were very drunk and we got quite close throughout the night but nothing too flirty. Then when we got back home he said not don't bother going back to your room just sleep here. I was drunk so I did. Then the next thing I know am laying there and he is on-top of me with his arms wrapped round me and we are falling asleep. I know this sounds quite innocent but it has really messed me up a bit because it leaves me asking myself if he has feelings for me, even though he has made it clear several times before that he doesn't. What I don't understand is why he would play games with me like this? Do guys just get like this when they are drunk?


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    he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
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    (Original post by Whizz)
    he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
    I concur
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    No, damnit. I want that cake. I'm hungry
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    Sorry I don't think that really means anything. I've been in a similar position before with a best friend, but you do have to realise he's just not that into you . Then again I'm probably wrong !
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    (Original post by Whizz)
    he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
    I second..err...third that.
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    Ok, so I basically have a guy best friend. I have feelings for him but doesn't feel the same way, which he makes very clear. Its kinda hurt me but we are still best friends and we get along great. A few nights ago we we both were very drunk and we got quite close throughout the night but nothing too flirty. Then when we got back home he said not don't bother going back to your room just sleep here. I was drunk so I did. Then the next thing I know am laying there and he is on-top of me with his arms wrapped round me and we are falling asleep. I know this sounds quite innocent but it has really messed me up a bit because it leaves me asking myself if he has feelings for me, even though he has made it clear several times before that he doesn't. What I don't understand is why he would play games with me like this? Do guys just get like this when they are drunk?


    Thanks in advance for any response
    He's a lad. He wanted a shag. He knew you were easy. End of.
 
 
 
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