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    i have been in a new college for some time, i have made friends and am pretty settled in. However, it seems that i haven't made any new close friends, one problem i think is that i have one friend in each different groups. I feel like that a lot people have made new loads of new friends and i haven't. (i did know any people at this college when i first joined). I feel like at lunchtimes i don't have anyone to be with (sometimes).

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    i feel a bit lonely and its all i can think about, plz any help would be appreciated
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    wait it out. at this time two years ago i felt the same as you, you've only been there a few months and there is still a while for people to get used to each other.
    if you don't want to wait it out, be more pro-active! make friends with your friends' friends. i was still meeting new people in my second year, infact, one of my closest friends at college was met and made in my second year, as well as my boyfriend (i had seen them around and we had mutual friends, sometimes it just takes a while for people to start talking )
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    OP i feel exactly the same. I end up spending lunches in the library. I hate being lonely..i miss my old friends =[. and what makes everything worse is that my best friend who went to the college with me ditched me for some other people. im just wishing these two years away.
 
 
 
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