Hello, so since yesterday, i’ve been having a cold. My boyfriend came by to see me for a short while. During that time, he asked me to give him a b**w j*b but i said it’s not possible because of the condition in my house, there were a lot of people and stuff. But he kept on insisting although i explained the situation and showed my concerns. Then, i did it because i was afraid of him getting mad and giving me silence. We agreed on CNC but every time i told him there should be conditions, he refused because he said that "a deal is a deal" jokingly. Sometimes, it felt painful but he kept doing it although i had begged him to stop. That doesn’t mean i don’t enjoy doing it with him anymore because i love him and those moments mean a lot to me. How do i confront him about this without him getting mad or shrug it off like it’s nothing? And is CNC like this? I don’t want to be ignored.