this is going to take a longg timeee but it will get easier just keep urself busy and occupied with ur lifee
You are 18. It sounds very much like you were in love. but she ended it, don't drag yourself down man. I know it sucks, but don't sit and moap about it. It's a done deal, she didn't want the relationship anymore. It's hard to understand but it IT HAPPENS
Honestly man, you're too young. Get yourself out there, you've spent 4 years with a girl - you got a whole lot to explore and do and university is the best place to do it. So don't drag yourself down, pick yourself up go out with your mates and enjoy your single life.
Its easier said than done, but down the line you will see im totally right.
Yea anonymous is pretty much right. Sometimes people grow apart, and especially being so young, maybe she felt trapped and uni would be the best time to end it. But hey..have time to yourself so you can build up your own character, cause since you dated from when you were young, your probably very alike, so its good for time to yourself. Hope you feel a lil better.
Yea the user in front is mostly right. Maybe you guys grew apart and her heart just wasnt in it, so she couldn't find it in herself to break up with you before but uni would be an easier time. Its good that you'll have some time apart from each other so you can grow in yourself and develop your own character, because when you've been in a relationship from such a young age, you begin to grow like each other, but now you've broken up it like.....argg...am losing a part of me. So its good you're breaking so you can develop and also make more friends and stuff.Hope you feel better...
anon user 1, are you my ex? your story sounds like what probably went on in her head, and im not joking when i ask if its my ex lol, thanks for all the comments everyone, things are kinda going ok!
Same happened to me recently man, albeit it was only 2.5 years. Although i broke it up because she had changed so much but still loved her so much.
Maybe we should meet up and discuss over a beer how much life sucks without women, then realise that we need to suck it up and try our best. and everyone is right uni is the best time for ya