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Can I report a nurse for inappropriate behavior?

I went through a rough time last year. My mom kicked me out. I was staying with my bf, but he kicked me out too. My nurse set up a meeting with me and my mother and begged my mom to let me stay with her until I got on my feet. My mom agreed. She even tried to contact my boyfriend but he didn’t answer her calls. Months and months later I noticed that my ex would be waiting at the hospital at the end of her shift. The icing on the cake is when I saw that they were Facebook friends. She’s on the top of his main friend list. It’s clear that they mess around. My heart is broken because I trusted this nurse. I cried in her office and said that I was in love with him, but she went behind my back. In her profile picture she’s wearing inappropriate clothes. Can I report her? She’s not my nurse anymore. After I had my baby she cut off all contact with me. Please help??

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Original post by Anonymous
I went through a rough time last year. My mom kicked me out. I was staying with my bf, but he kicked me out too. My nurse set up a meeting with me and my mother and begged my mom to let me stay with her until I got on my feet. My mom agreed. She even tried to contact my boyfriend but he didn’t answer her calls. Months and months later I noticed that my ex would be waiting at the hospital at the end of her shift. The icing on the cake is when I saw that they were Facebook friends. She’s on the top of his main friend list. It’s clear that they mess around. My heart is broken because I trusted this nurse. I cried in her office and said that I was in love with him, but she went behind my back. In her profile picture she’s wearing inappropriate clothes. Can I report her? She’s not my nurse anymore. After I had my baby she cut off all contact with me. Please help??


You don't say why you were kicked out by your mum. That's a big deal for a mother to go to that extreme. Tough love even.

What will you gain by reporting this?

You seem not to want to take any responsibility for what happened and still looking to blame others for your behaviour, seeking vengeance and looking to make some very serious charges to cause grief in your quest for vengeance.

You seem in a path of self destruction and want to take others with You.

Vengeance and jealousy are very destructive emotions.

And yet you don't even mention that it may have been your boyfriend who sought solace from another. He also kicked you out, get over it, he's clearly over with you.

Stop the bleeding hearts and take a good look at yourself then fix yourself before causing more harm to those you claim to love, than the pain you have already wrought.
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I don’t think you can report a nurse for what she does in her private life with another consenting adult…
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Report her for what, exactly, dating your ex? You've no proof of inappropriate behaviour.
Reply 4
As difficult as it may be for you move on, you need to focus on you and your baby.

You need to be in a good place not only for you but your child.
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Original post by uberteknik
You don't say why you were kicked out by your mum. That's a big deal for a mother to go to that extreme. Tough love even.

What will you gain by reporting this?

You seem not to want to take any responsibility for what happened and still looking to blame others for your behaviour, seeking vengeance and looking to make some very serious charges to cause grief in your quest for vengeance.

You seem in a path of self destruction and want to take others with You.

Vengeance and jealousy are very destructive emotions.

And yet you don't even mention that it may have been your boyfriend who sought solace from another. He also kicked you out, get over it, he's clearly over with you.

Stop the bleeding hearts and take a good look at yourself then fix yourself before causing more harm to those you claim to love, than the pain you have already wrought.


But I was her patient. I was in her cars. She set up a meeting for me when I was 8 months pregnant! She made me open up to her. She made me talk about my boyfriend. And what she did is a violation and it’s unprofessional. I’m going there next Monday to try to talk with her or someone!
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Original post by Sorcerer of Old
I don’t think you can report a nurse for what she does in her private life with another consenting adult…

She stole something that was mine. She set up a meeting and made me open up to her. What she did was unprofessional! Sleeping with patients references! That’s my baby daddy! The same baby she helped me deliver!
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Original post by Surnia
Report her for what, exactly, dating your ex? You've no proof of inappropriate behaviour.

My baby daddy was my reference that she tried to contact at the meeting. The same Baby she delivered! I was in her care!
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Original post by uberteknik
You don't say why you were kicked out by your mum. That's a big deal for a mother to go to that extreme. Tough love even.

What will you gain by reporting this?

You seem not to want to take any responsibility for what happened and still looking to blame others for your behaviour, seeking vengeance and looking to make some very serious charges to cause grief in your quest for vengeance.

You seem in a path of self destruction and want to take others with You.

Vengeance and jealousy are very destructive emotions.

And yet you don't even mention that it may have been your boyfriend who sought solace from another. He also kicked you out, get over it, he's clearly over with you.

Stop the bleeding hearts and take a good look at yourself then fix yourself before causing more harm to those you claim to love, than the pain you have already wrought.

I went to her office crying to her at 8 months pregnant because he kicked me out. I didn’t want to talk about it but she made me! But on her Facebook she dresses like a tramp and went behind my back!
Original post by Anonymous
I went to her office crying to her at 8 months pregnant because he kicked me out. I didn’t want to talk about it but she made me! But on her Facebook she dresses like a tramp and went behind my back!

It looks like you’ve already made up your mind about her behaviour, so why did you make this thread then?
Amazing how many people get up on Sunday mornings and think 'I'll type out a load of tripe on the internet and see where it goes'
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Original post by StriderHort
Amazing how many people get up on Sunday mornings and think 'I'll type out a load of tripe on the internet and see where it goes'

Sure I would be happy too if I wasn’t in my situation! One day you will be in a tough situation too. This hurts a lot I feel pain. She hurt me y’all act like I fcked her man!
Reply 12
Original post by Sorcerer of Old
It looks like you’ve already made up your mind about her behaviour, so why did you make this thread then?

Because I feel pain. It’s easy for you to feel free because your not in my situation. I been crying, talking to people! I’m hurting so bad!!
Original post by Anonymous
Sure I would be happy too if I wasn’t in my situation! One day you will be in a tough situation too. This hurts a lot I feel pain. She hurt me y’all act like I fcked her man!


Funny how you think she has responsibility for hurting you rather than the guy who threw you out.

Making any complaint of the nature 'This nurse is friends with my ex"' or 'I don't like how they dress in their personal life!' Will get you immediately dismissed as a vexatious troublemaker and might affect your own treatment if you get a record for causing trouble for staff.
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Original post by StriderHort
Funny how you think she has responsibility for hurting you rather than the guy who threw you out.

Making any complaint of the nature 'This nurse is friends with my ex"' or 'I don't like how they dress in their personal life!' Will get you immediately dismissed as a vexatious troublemaker and might affect your own treatment if you get a record for causing trouble for staff.


He’s my baby daddy at the end of the day. She knew that. She tried to invite him to the meeting. He is my contact. She was supposed to do her job professionally but she crossed boundaries. It’s clear that they are more than friends! He never used to go to that hospital until now. He’s always there at the end of her shift. I know because I been watching them. How could she do this to me?
Honestly I think you need help, you are basically admitting to stalking them.

You need to fix yourself, please get the help you need and do it fast.
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Original post by Anonymous
Honestly I think you need help, you are basically admitting to stalking them.

You need to fix yourself, please get the help you need and do it fast.

She’s a crazy stalker after she got his number she clearly did research and went behind my back! She’s a crazy whoooore! Who needs to be exposed and I will let the higher ups know
Original post by Anonymous
He’s my baby daddy at the end of the day. She knew that. She tried to invite him to the meeting. He is my contact. She was supposed to do her job professionally but she crossed boundaries. It’s clear that they are more than friends! He never used to go to that hospital until now. He’s always there at the end of her shift. I know because I been watching them. How could she do this to me?

Well your baby daddy dumped you and kicked you out, how much are you expecting other people to respect this 'relationship'? or consider that it's the nurse doing thing to you?

Her professional obligation and boundaries were to you, not your ex. You have no proof they're more than friends and even if they are, it's out with your control, no matter how much you rake through their social media and follow them around spying. Attempting to make a formal complaint about this would make you look unhinged.
Original post by Anonymous
She’s a crazy stalker after she got his number she clearly did research and went behind my back! She’s a crazy whoooore! Who needs to be exposed and I will let the higher ups know

Take a day off, troll. It’s Sunday. Get back into bed and put on Netflix. You can troll tomorrow morning.
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Original post by Sorcerer of Old
Take a day off, troll. It’s Sunday. Get back into bed and put on Netflix. You can troll tomorrow morning.

Honesty I wish that I was. I wish that this was a dream. I hate my life so much! This hurts so bad. I keep trying to stay strong for my baby but I can’t stop crying. I was in love with him but she just had to ruin things!

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