How to get someone back?

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Reply 20

Surnia

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Original post by Anonymous

He was hurt really badly in his previous relationship.

But why doesn't he want a relationship with you?

Reply 21

Anonymous #1

Original post by Surnia

But why doesn't he want a relationship with you?

I'm not 100% sure, think he's scared of history repeating itself. Doesn't want to hurt me, but also doesn't want to get hurt again. It's so sad because he's punishing himself for something he didn't do.

Reply 22

A jaded girl

Original post by Anonymous

If he wanted you that badly he would have made it happen, he doesn't so it is dead, move on

Reply 23

rodiane17

Original post by Anonymous

what are you doing about it?

The thing is, we're both right for each other. So well matched it's ridiculous.

I think you only believe that you are looking to hear. You heard what you didnt want to hear from me and you will make yourself believe that your situation is nowhere near the same. When a person is right for you, things will fall perfectly in place. They will not give up on you. They are willing to take the risk no matter how hurt they have been before.

I have seen this message just today, I think this is for you and me.
There are people who are attached and assigned. Attached people will be with you until there is still something to take advantage of you and will go away if you no longer bear any purpose for them. Assigned people will stick with you through ups and downs. The problem is, we give the assigned energy to attached people that we fail to see who are really there for us and end up making wrong decisions.

I cant say who he is in your life. That is for you to decide.