My mum wont let me sleep over at my boyfriends at 19?!

I’m 19 and she was so rude about it and said “No that’s never happening” in such a rude tone?!!
I’m now crying because he wanted me to and I feel bad and annoyed. I’m a grown adult! Yes I may be autistic or a bit immature but I can’t help that.

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Anonymous #1

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Why would she not let me? I guess she doesn’t want me to have sex as she doesn’t want me to have a baby?!

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Original post by Anonymous

Why would she not let me? I guess she doesn’t want me to have sex as she doesn’t want me to have a baby?!

Hey , your mom knows you more then anyone, she knows whats the best for you, ofc maybe there was some up and down with her but she still loves you no matter what, remember she wanted you in this world and i am sure she will have some explaination, i suggest to talk to get gently and calm and ask for the reason, dont start to argue

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by Anonymous

Hey , your mom knows you more then anyone, she knows whats the best for you, ofc maybe there was some up and down with her but she still loves you no matter what, remember she wanted you in this world and i am sure she will have some explaination, i suggest to talk to get gently and calm and ask for the reason, dont start to argue

Well, I do know she doesn’t want me to have sex which is something that she doesn’t want to happen. I feel guilty for being rude to her when she said no. I just feel sad because I really wanyed to go as he’s going to uni soon and I want to spend the most i can with him :frown:

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indotime

8

if anything just say your going to stay at your friends house one of the "girl friends" and just go to your bf house

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greentiger

15

My mum and I have a good relationship but she’s similar with things like this. I used to just say i’m off to my friends house for the night and i’d keep her posted which she accepted. I always felt guilty for lying but it worked because I made sure to text her and say things like we are doing ….. and having a great time! Thought I would let you know! and she strongly appreciated messages like this as it let her know that I was fine and well.

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Grandadtit

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19 is above the age of consent and you yourself and only you get to consent to sex so it is rather controlling for your mother to have any say in that. You need to have a serious conversation about your own artomimy with your mother and being autistic is not a reason to control or deny someone the ability to be interment with their partner

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Original post by Anonymous

I’m 19 and she was so rude about it and said “No that’s never happening” in such a rude tone?!!
I’m now crying because he wanted me to and I feel bad and annoyed. I’m a grown adult! Yes I may be autistic or a bit immature but I can’t help that.

That seems so unfair

My mum wont let me sleep over at my boyfriends at 19?!

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