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but don't try to be a good dancer. god that's the worst
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Easy as pie... the trick is confidence and saying hi, not strutting about with your nose in the air.
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Easy as pie... the trick is confidence and saying hi, not strutting about with your nose in the air.
:rolleyes: confidence means nothing if you have nothing to back it up with
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you have to be a minx
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Its not hard to pull in clubs but why would you want to? You are sticking your tongue in someones mouth and you don't even know them! God knows where they have been. ugh!
Maybe it's not hard for you, some of us struggle
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I'm not confident enough ... or happy enough for that matter. Curses
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I've only been going clubbing for two years properly, I started late like most things in my life, its ironic I was born four weeks early!

I never have the confidence to pull in a club always get fear I am going to get a smack, though some times girls may sense I fancy them. Some times they get closer and I tend to back off, some times they back off.
Yes. I have clip on ties just in case......
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I'm not confident enough ... or happy enough for that matter. Curses
Maybe that's my problem, although I think I probably look confident even if I don't feel it.
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Maybe it's not hard for you, some of us struggle
well it has nothing to do with looks. And that wasn't my point. The point was why would you want to. Some clubs are just generally meat markets. anyway if you really want to get off with random blokes that you dont know if a dark corner then its all about confidence. Your eyes speak volumes. Dancing helps but you need to have that underlying confidence. When you walk in don't look shy and hide with your mates, walk in happily, know where you're going and who you want to speak to. Don't act like you're stuck up just have a happy confidence exuding from you. And when you talk to someone make them feel like they are the only person in the room :cool:
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well it has nothing to do with looks. And that wasn't my point. The point was why would you want to. Some clubs are just generally meat markets. anyway if you really want to get off with random blokes that you dont know if a dark corner then its all about confidence. Your eyes speak volumes. Dancing helps but you need to have that underlying confidence. When you walk in don't look shy and hide with your mates, walk in happily, know where you're going and who you want to speak to. Don't act like you're stuck up just have a happy confidence exuding from you. And when you talk to someone make them feel like they are the only person in the room :cool:
Thanx, I'll try all that stuff
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Maybe it's not hard for you, some of us struggle
Get in a sexy outfit, get a couple of vodkas down your neck then get on that dance floor like you mean it!!!
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Get in a sexy outfit, get a couple of vodkas down your neck then get on that dance floor like you mean it!!!
Well I do all that, I don't go out dressed like i'm going to church and I dance all night. I think there's something fundamentally repellent about me to men in clubs, it's the only explanation!
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Do you have a good success rate when you go out on the pull? No one ever looks at me when I'm out and it makes me dread going clubbing a bit, especially since my mate usually pulls. Seems a bit sad to get down because random blokes don't pay you attention but I guess that makes me a bit sad! Does anyone else have this problem? Or, even more helpful, any tips on what I may be doing wrong? Thanks x x x
Quite obviously hun, you've never gone out in Manchester in 5th Av, The Bop, Robo's, Club Trop or the AU! :p:

To be honest though... please don't get bothered by not having any attention. And rest assured that the second you get a bf, you'll have guys hitting on you constantly. The best way to pull in clubs, quite simply, is to get a bf/gf. It's one of lifes great enigmas.
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Get in a sexy outfit, get a couple of vodkas down your neck then get on that dance floor like you mean it!!!
the true art is being able to be dressed in anything and still manage to turn heads from the way you look at them with your eyes
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Quite obviously hun, you've never gone out in Manchester in 5th Av, The Bop, Robo's, Club Trop or the AU! :p:

To be honest though... please don't get bothered by not having any attention. And rest assured that the second you get a bf, you'll have guys hitting on you constantly. The best way to pull in clubs, quite simply, is to get a bf/gf. It's one of lifes great enigmas.
Is 5th Ave supposed to be easy to pull in? :confused: If so I am doomed.
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Get in a sexy outfit, get a couple of vodkas down your neck then get on that dance floor like you mean it!!!
One absinthe will do me, thankyou :rolleyes:
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Quite obviously hun, you've never gone out in Manchester in 5th Av, The Bop, Robo's, Club Trop or the AU! :p:

To be honest though... please don't get bothered by not having any attention. And rest assured that the second you get a bf, you'll have guys hitting on you constantly. The best way to pull in clubs, quite simply, is to get a bf/gf. It's one of lifes great enigmas.
yep sods law. Men are like buses.
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Well I do all that, I don't go out dressed like i'm going to church and I dance all night. I think there's something fundamentally repellent about me to men in clubs, it's the only explanation!
Well there must be something wrong with them then. Its the only explanation im prepared to accept
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One absinthe will do me, thankyou :rolleyes:
That does to me what about ten vodkas do :rolleyes:
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Is 5th Ave supposed to be easy to pull in? :confused: If so I am doomed.
You have to a retrosexual to pull in 5th... ensure you haven't showered before gonig out, you haven't applied any fresh smelling products since the morning, you haven't thought about what to wear, but most crucially, you haven't shaved for nearly a week. Follow those rules, and it's easy. Make any effort whatsoever, and it doesn't happen...
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