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Why are boys so confusing?
I met this guy from halls and he seemed v friendly, though I didn't think much of him. Then as we chatted more, I started to like him. He was always quite pleased to see me and I started to fancy him. He told me in detail how he had broken up with his girlfriend...a hint? I don't know. He often says we should meet up/do stuff together.
Then he said he'd come over to hang and never came, then I saw him again and I was pleased to see me, then our hang out this weekend never happened.
I kept thinking about him all the time and didn't want to seem clingy or too interested, so didn't contact him too much but tried to be there if I thought he might be out too etc. I really fancy him.
And **** me I just saw him walking upstairs with his ex (I think)....
Then he said he'd come over to hang and never came, then I saw him again and I was pleased to see me, then our hang out this weekend never happened.
I kept thinking about him all the time and didn't want to seem clingy or too interested, so didn't contact him too much but tried to be there if I thought he might be out too etc. I really fancy him.
And **** me I just saw him walking upstairs with his ex (I think)....
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Oh and last night he was ''with'' some girl, as he was the night before that.
God.
God.
We're not confusing! At least I don't think I am lol. Well actually it's probably the complete opposite, cos of my weird personality 
This seems similair to a situation I'm in.
He's in my halls but just broke up with his ex but slept with me and led me to believe he liked me but is on and off and hot and cold.
I think some guys just really don't know what they want and just go with the flow as it were, just float along seeing what happens...
And they don't think about it as much as we do. So he won't be over analysing it like you are, he'll just be like 'oooh a girl...' 'ooo another girl' 'oooh the first girl again'.
He's in my halls but just broke up with his ex but slept with me and led me to believe he liked me but is on and off and hot and cold.
I think some guys just really don't know what they want and just go with the flow as it were, just float along seeing what happens...
And they don't think about it as much as we do. So he won't be over analysing it like you are, he'll just be like 'oooh a girl...' 'ooo another girl' 'oooh the first girl again'.
Does he like me or not?
Why does he act like he likes me one minute and then not the next?
Argh
Why does he act like he likes me one minute and then not the next?
Argh
I'm sorry to say this but there are a lot of boys who are rather machiavellian when it comes to girls. It would seem he is one of them.
Argm some boys are tres confusing.
I think a lot of people don't know what they want so push it to the back of their minds untill they see you, then they remember they like you, but other than that it doesn't preoccupy them!
I think a lot of people don't know what they want so push it to the back of their minds untill they see you, then they remember they like you, but other than that it doesn't preoccupy them!
to be honest hun i would just forget him in that and maybe consider being firends instead?? if he was honestly that interested im sure you would know it by now....
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to be honest hun i would just forget him in that and maybe consider being firends instead?? if he was honestly that interested im sure you would know it by now....
God, you are right. That's what I thought to myself, but then I still fancy him?? And he seemed to like me/not like me. Argh. It was like any time he showed any small interest was a glimmer of hope. **** him.
Aack
Are you sure this "boy" isn't your reflection?
WTF?
Aack
Are you sure this "boy" isn't your reflection?
HAHAHAHAHAHA!
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This seems similair to a situation I'm in.
He's in my halls but just broke up with his ex but slept with me and led me to believe he liked me but is on and off and hot and cold.
I think some guys just really don't know what they want and just go with the flow as it were, just float along seeing what happens...
And they don't think about it as much as we do. So he won't be over analysing it like you are, he'll just be like 'oooh a girl...' 'ooo another girl' 'oooh the first girl again'.
He's in my halls but just broke up with his ex but slept with me and led me to believe he liked me but is on and off and hot and cold.
I think some guys just really don't know what they want and just go with the flow as it were, just float along seeing what happens...
And they don't think about it as much as we do. So he won't be over analysing it like you are, he'll just be like 'oooh a girl...' 'ooo another girl' 'oooh the first girl again'.
sounds like he just wants you for sex with the whole hot cold thing.
he sounds like a bit of a prick if you ask me...
just leave it unless he says hes sorry and explains wtf is going on
just leave it unless he says hes sorry and explains wtf is going on
Its called 'two-timing'
If a boy see's that he can get with more than one girl successfully, he'll have no intention in settling with one. Even if he finds you greatly attractive or whatnot.
It's just a thing you have to accept about guys. We like a good mezze plate, we don't just go for the one bowl of humous (Hopefully you understand the analogy lol).
So if he's always with other girls, he probably doesn't think of you anymore than he does them. Therefore, you need to make yourself stand out from the other girls he's with.
Spontaneuously kiss him or something.
It's just a thing you have to accept about guys. We like a good mezze plate, we don't just go for the one bowl of humous (Hopefully you understand the analogy lol).
So if he's always with other girls, he probably doesn't think of you anymore than he does them. Therefore, you need to make yourself stand out from the other girls he's with.
Spontaneuously kiss him or something.
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