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Distraction: When you're busy comparing yourself to others, your own application suffers. Focus on showcasing your unique strengths and passions instead.
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Mental Drain: Worrying about how you stack up against others is exhausting. Save your energy for important tasks like your research proposal or personal statement.
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Lack of Control: Remember - you can't control other applicants, but you can control how well you present yourself in your application.
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Self-focus: Make a list of your achievements and skills. Use this as your benchmark, not other applicants. I know this can be hard (I'm a twin, so if anyone knows what constant comparison feels like, it's me! 😅), but in the end, it's going to feel a lot better if you compete against yourself in your mind, not others.
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Feedback is gold: Reach out to mentors or alumni for constructive feedback on your application. Their insights can be invaluable.
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Celebrate the small wins: Personally, I don't think we do this enough in today's high-pressure academic environment. So did you finish your CV or get a great reference letter? Celebrate these milestones!
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