For anyone who's never been kissed / had a bf/gf / had sex, READ THIS!!
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I am 23 and this thread has made me feel awful.
this is a reminder for me to read this later. will delte 
Nice post! 
Great post, ignore the people who are complaining
ProgressDesired
Thanks, some good advice - especially the one about pretending you're confident I find that "thinking" that you are confident and top-notch helps in many situations, including interviews and public speaking.
Are there any books that you would recommend, OP?
Michael
Are there any books that you would recommend, OP?
Michael
whats OP?
and to sum it all up... http://www.laddertheory.com
Water23
whats OP?
Original Poster.
If you are 23+ and have not had such an experience, and it is not through lack of trying, then that will probably put you in under 1% of the population, and you are probably more than likely doing something wrong. It definitely doesn't necessarily mean you're a weird / strange person, but I think if its an issue that does concern you then why not look into trying to change it?
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40% are still virgins? Funny I'dve thought it would've been lower..
Melting Sugar.
40% are still virgins? Funny I'dve thought it would've been lower..
I'm almost certain that it is. According to the BBC/MTV/Durex poll referenced in this article (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/4784939.stm) maybe 25% of people lose their virginity at 18 or later, and about 10% after age 18. Not that I'm taking that poll as absolute truth, but it's probably better than an ass-pulled number chosen to make virgins in their late teens feel better about themselves.
Fair do's, i don't know that many people, who would honestly put that out there, so well done! I have a friend who has never been kissed by a boy, she is a classic beauty, intelligent, lovely voice, and she's not that bothered about it at all!
And for blokes, Jimmy Carr,a successfull and funny guy, didn't lose his virginity until he was 26, i believe it was 26.
Chin up Ducky
PLEASE stop boasting about all the girls you have been sleeping with. It's cool to date a number of different people as long as they're not SLUTS. lol. Sleeping around is never something to boast about anyway. ur right though- confidence is the main thing. just try not to sound so patronising in ur advice
Well,
Im 21
I never went to night clubs, drink alchohol and smoke .
but still single as well, im looking for girlfriend , but no have to smoke or drink
hard to find though .. any way Im happy to be alone
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I love healthy life , coz god ( gave us one body and one life )
Im 21
I never went to night clubs, drink alchohol and smoke .
but still single as well, im looking for girlfriend , but no have to smoke or drink
hard to find though .. any way Im happy to be alone
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
I love healthy life , coz god ( gave us one body and one life )
hfreaks
Well,
Im 21
I never went to night clubs, drink alchohol and smoke .
but still single as well, im looking for girlfriend , but no have to smoke or drink
hard to find though .. any way Im happy to be alone
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
I love healthy life , coz god ( gave us one body and one life )
Im 21
I never went to night clubs, drink alchohol and smoke .
but still single as well, im looking for girlfriend , but no have to smoke or drink
hard to find though .. any way Im happy to be alone
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
I love healthy life , coz god ( gave us one body and one life )
Only this part applies to me, though i've done lots of stuff with girls apart from sex. I won't be doing that for a long time.
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