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Original post by Anonymous_98743
Yes i believe so as you have never interacted. Once you have interacted she might think this guys ok.

Or does it depend on the situation ? Once a girl is creeped out overca guy will she staycthecsame or will shevforgive?
Original post by Anonymous #3

Or does it depend on the situation ? Once a girl is creeped out overca guy will she staycthecsame or will shevforgive?


Have you interacted with this girl?
Original post by Anonymous #4
Have you interacted with this girl?

Weve both seen each other a few times. I have tried to sit close to her and at times she has given me the cold shoulder - her and her friend act strange around me but I have spoken to her once.

Other than that I know nothing about her. I havnt done anything to upset her.
Original post by Anonymous #3

Weve both seen each other a few times. I have tried to sit close to her and at times she has given me the cold shoulder - her and her friend act strange around me but I have spoken to her once.

Other than that I know nothing about her. I havnt done anything to upset her.


Then I would say she should be fine. If you havr nevrr had a conversation with her then talk to her properly rathervthan oogle etc. This should make her feel at ease and see you as a normal person. Whenever u fancy a girl always aporoach asap.

You cant ever creep out a girl without interacting with her.
Original post by Anonymous #4
Then I would say she should be fine. If you havr nevrr had a conversation with her then talk to her properly rathervthan oogle etc. This should make her feel at ease and see you as a normal person. Whenever u fancy a girl always aporoach asap.

You cant ever creep out a girl without interacting with her.

My intention was to never upset her. I just really fancy her and im not good at approaching girls. Next time i see her im going to have a friendly convo with her and see how it goes.

Should i ask her name or is it too soon?
Original post by Anonymous #3

Weve both seen each other a few times. I have tried to sit close to her and at times she has given me the cold shoulder - her and her friend act strange around me but I have spoken to her once.

Other than that I know nothing about her. I havnt done anything to upset her.


Dont read too much into a girls behaviour as they can be hard too read especially shy girls. I would say have a light convo with her.
Original post by Anonymous_98743
Dont read too much into a girls behaviour as they can be hard too read especially shy girls. I would say have a light convo with her.

Should i ask her name next time i see her? Its always a nice touch i feel.
research and studies say that that there is a rise in male loneliness
Original post by Anonymous #1
Hi all I have never had a girlfriend before or had sex and sometimes I feel depressed about it. I try not to focus on it too much and focus on myself. I try not to get jealous of other people's relationships as sometimes it just gets to me when the girl prefers the other guy. All I do is be myself and try to be confident around girls but at the end of the day, they are just people.

I think it is mainly a lack of confidence I just need to stop being shy around girls as it makes me feel like a creep. I just need to know how to stop being jealous of other people's relationships and become confident and not a simp. I consider myself an attractive person but it is confidence that is mainly the key.

All that rubbish about being a simp etc is just because the dating game is broken here. As is all the self help cr*p around for guys in the internet. Get out of 'the West' and go date in a foreign country. You'll see how much easier it is. Too many guys just don't want to do that though. They think by whining on here on the I internet and trying all sorts of silly things something will swing it for them. It won't.

If you've gotten to 27 with apparently no joy (I had done also) then your prospects in this country are remote. It means that you've already been passed over, and you've already passed over all the women that you just couldn't stomach to be with. So you're better off looking elsewhere, abroad.
Original post by Anonymous #5
I mean a lot of guys take it personally but in reality it's basically the government not wanting a high birth rate simple as we don't have the housing and don't need the population. So they get the schools to push out the Education/Career path to girls so they aren't interested in dating guys. It's that simple why you can't get a girlfriend it shouldn't be a mystery to guys.

What would happen otherwise? The guys would be getting with the girls and not long after be wanting to have kids with her. Sure at the moment you just want one to date but once you got one the kids thing would come up at some point. So the gov have to interest women elsewhere to stop you and other guys doing that, education/careers. Girls are suckers for that all the time so you've next to no chance. Only chance you have is abroad.

Not true at all. Totally disagree. Us guys were born in the uk. Educated here. Raises here. Why would wecwant to go abroad and find people who have different cultures etc. We need girls from here who we can relate to. We can find girls here we just need to overcome our issues and insecurities.

Girls from here are not goddesses they also have flaws.
How would you creep out a girl who you have never spoken with?
Reply 51
Original post by Anonymous #1
Hi all I have never had a girlfriend before or had sex and sometimes I feel depressed about it. I try not to focus on it too much and focus on myself. I try not to get jealous of other people's relationships as sometimes it just gets to me when the girl prefers the other guy. All I do is be myself and try to be confident around girls but at the end of the day, they are just people.

I think it is mainly a lack of confidence I just need to stop being shy around girls as it makes me feel like a creep. I just need to know how to stop being jealous of other people's relationships and become confident and not a simp. I consider myself an attractive person but it is confidence that is mainly the key.

Bro as someone that has done it with women, I can tell you that sex isn't worth the hype. It's a boring or fun as masturbation. Relationships especially long term one of any form all end in todays society in heartbreak or financial consequences, it's again not worth the hype. Just go your own way and work on yourself. Hit the gym and get some good hobbies to focus yourself for a few years, afterwards you'll have all the confidence in the world. Chill out, you've got your whole life ahead of you to be worried about sex and complicated relationships. And if it's still depressing you then either hire a high class escort or go abroad.
yup sure no doubt its more common for men than for women to reach an age like this and still be single
Reply 53
Original post by Anonymous
Hi all I have never had a girlfriend before or had sex and sometimes I feel depressed about it. I try not to focus on it too much and focus on myself. I try not to get jealous of other people's relationships as sometimes it just gets to me when the girl prefers the other guy. All I do is be myself and try to be confident around girls but at the end of the day, they are just people.
I think it is mainly a lack of confidence I just need to stop being shy around girls as it makes me feel like a creep. I just need to know how to stop being jealous of other people's relationships and become confident and not a simp. I consider myself an attractive person but it is confidence that is mainly the key.

Can DM me for advice/help/tips
Original post by Mwolf
Can DM me for advice/help/tips

I tried messaging you privately but the student room is being weird. I am just frustrated that I have not been intimate with a girl yet or haven't had sex with any girls yet. I know sex is not everything but it is very hard for me just even. get a kiss from a girl. And I am frustrated that I am constantly horny all the time and I have quit porn now and I just want to have experiences with different girls I just know how to talk to girls properly in a way that will be able to sleep with me.
Sorry this sounds a be sad i just do not want to be the simp anymore or have to use online apps which are quite dodgy is there any advice you can give me?

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