The Student Room Group

A girl loves me...but I don't want her to.

Please keep anon or delete.

This girl who i hardly know, I only used to see her a few times a year tops, started talking to me recently.

At first she was just asking for help with her work, she is younger than me, which was fine but then she started telling me about other problems she was having.

I did my best to help her out and she feels better now but she now says she loves me. All this has happened within a few weeks and i find it very difficult to believe that she loves me because as said before, we hardly know each other. I think because I am one of few nice guys to give her help and attention, she goes to a girls school, that she has jumped to this conclusion.

I have told her this but she keeps saying the only way to get to know each other is to start going out. I don't want to though because she is younger etc. but the only way I could stop her e-mailing me was to say i already had a girlfriend.

She still calls me and wants me to tell her how to solve her problems of heartbreak etc. I don't know what to do, I am out of my depth and I fear she may do something stupid if I don't say that i will be her boyfriend...

Scroll to see replies

Reply 1
hahahahaa feel it
sorry this is funny
an sorry i cant help :frown:
Reply 2
When you say younger...how young???:s-smilie:
Reply 3
What's the age gap between you two? She sounds really weird sorry to say that
Reply 4
Yeah, how young is this girl exactly?
Reply 5
tell her to calme down but there nothing wrong with getting to know her
You shouldn't go out with her just because you feel the need to.

Just don't reply.
Or dont come online as much, or at least tell her what's happening. Don't reply.
rag her senseless then leave. That way you get pussy and she hates you so doesn't love you :smile:
Reply 8
What's the relationship between you two?

From the way you describe it as out of bounds, and that she's 'in love' with you as you help her, it sounds like an obsessive young female falling for a professional? Which happens a lot :o:
Ahhh, the "Can't help but pull younger girls, a little too young for yourself, so then you try to avoid them, hoping they will go away, but they get more possessive and try harder to get you despite your greatest efforts" feeling, know it well.
Reply 10
abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz
rag her senseless then leave. That way you get pussy and she hates you so doesn't love you :smile:

You'd make a perfect investment banker.
ashy
You'd make a perfect investment banker.

and that is what i want to do lmao XD
Reply 12
I'm 17 and in year 13, i'm not sure of her exact age but she is in year 11. This shows how much we don't know each other. Is there no place similar to the samaritans or something where she can talk to someone and sort herself out.
shes messing with you its obvious young girl playing a prank
Anonymous
I'm 17 and in year 13, i'm not sure of her exact age but she is in year 11. This shows how much we don't know each other. Is there no place similar to the samaritans or something where she can talk to someone and sort herself out.


mmmmmm fresh meat!!!!
Reply 15
Flic89
What's the relationship between you two?

From the way you describe it as out of bounds, and that she's 'in love' with you as you help her, it sounds like an obsessive young female falling for a professional? Which happens a lot :o:


Well i'm not quite a professional but she sees me as intelligent amongst other things and therefore asks me everything.
Reply 16
abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz
and that is what i want to do lmao XD

Hence I said it.
im in EXACTLY the same situation! im 18 and shes 17
Anonymous
I'm 17 and in year 13, i'm not sure of her exact age but she is in year 11. This shows how much we don't know each other. Is there no place similar to the samaritans or something where she can talk to someone and sort herself out.


Thats not too bad. Your 17 and shes most probably 15. What two years? Thats alrite m8. But you should let her get upto 16 first, if you want her.

Nothing paedo about that!!
*edited quote out because OP sent me a nice message politely asking me to delete :smile:*

There goes anon.