sex for the first time?

I think right now for you it doesn't seem like the time is right. You're unsure and have lots of upcomming things in the furture, if he is genuine he will respect and understand your decision not to, he won't in anyway pressure you. If he starts to make you feel bad for not having sex with him then thats a major red flag 🚩. How long have you been talking for? And how long ago was this relationship that he had?

i’m 17F and recently my guy friend and i realised we like each other. although we’ve texted every day since we met, we’ve only met in person a couple of times due to distance, and we only met one-on-one for the first time a few weeks ago. this meet-up was where we first kissed and thus realised we liked each other. however, we were a bit short on time that night, and i got the impression that if we’d had longer, he would’ve wanted to have sex.
i’m meeting him again soon and i’m pretty certain that he’s expecting to have sex, but i’ve never had sex before, whereas i’m 99% sure he has, especially as he’s been in a long term relationship. i, on the other hand, have never done anything more than kiss a couple of guys whilst drunk, and so am very nervous about the whole prospect. i don’t know if i feel ready, not because i don’t want to have sex or don’t like him, but because i’m very scared about the pain, bleeding, and just generally looking like an idiot because of how inexperienced i am. above all, though, i am terrified of getting pregnant. plus, i have very strict parents, and i honestly don’t know what they’d do if they found out i had sex.
he doesn’t know that i’ve never had sex, so obviously i would tell him if we ended up in that position, but i suppose my question is whether i should go through with it or not? and if so, how should i go about it? i’ve considered that it’s probably just worth waiting a few months until i’m off at uni, but i really like this guy and don’t want to mess things up with him?

I think right now for you it doesn't seem like the time is right. You're unsure and have lots of upcomming things in the furture, if he is genuine he will respect and understand your decision not to, he won't in anyway pressure you. If he starts to make you feel bad for not having sex with him then thats a major red flag 🚩. How long have you been talking for? And how long ago was this relationship that he had?

Don't do it! When you sleep with your first man, he will be pleased and flattered if you bleed, because then he'll know he was your first

thanks. i really don’t think he’d pressure me or make me feel bad, as he is a nice guy - i’m just worried about messing things up, as i really want to take things further with him but i don’t think he could be in a relationship where there’s no sex at all.
we started talking as friends about 7 months ago, but as i say, it only turned romantic about a month ago (it’s a weird situation though, even though we kissed etc we’ve just sort of carried on as friends with no commitment or exclusivity or anything, which i don’t love tbh). as for his last relationship, that also ended around 7 months ago, a couple of weeks after we started talking