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I don't feel like masturbating

Right after my break up I don't feel like masturbating at all. Is it normal?

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Reply 1
yes it’s normal *****
Reply 2
Original post by Anonymous #1
Right after my break up I don't feel like masturbating at all. Is it normal?

To be honest bruh it’ll be better you don’t ever do that. You’re saved from masturbation so you should keep it that way and focus more on yourself
Reply 3
Original post by OluwaLynx
To be honest bruh it’ll be better you don’t ever do that. You’re saved from masturbation so you should keep it that way and focus more on yourself

Why is it better to not masturbate? It only has health benefits, making you calmer, destressed and more in touch with yourself and your needs.
Reply 4
Original post by Anonymous
Why is it better to not masturbate? It only has health benefits, making you calmer, destressed and more in touch with yourself and your needs.

It’s not healthy to masturbate. It’s more of an addiction , and we all know addiction is really bad
Reply 5
Original post by OluwaLynx
It’s not healthy to masturbate. It’s more of an addiction , and we all know addiction is really bad

It is not an addiction and it is not bad for you in any way.
Reply 6
You need to seek help immediately.
Reply 7
Original post by Anonymous
It is not an addiction and it is not bad for you in any way.

If you think it’s good for you then go ahead
Reply 8
Original post by OluwaLynx
If you think it’s good for you then go ahead

Literally why do you think it is bad
Reply 9
Original post by Anonymous
Literally why do you think it is bad

Let me ask you this , why do you masturbate?
Original post by OluwaLynx
Let me ask you this , why do you masturbate?

people do it for pleasure and always have. it is healthy, as all things are in moderation. simply masturbating doesn't make it an 'addiction'. live a little
but OP that sounds normal. you'll probably feel different in other ways too.
Reply 12
Original post by Anonymous
people do it for pleasure and always have. it is healthy, as all things are in moderation. simply masturbating doesn't make it an 'addiction'. live a little

Why not just have s*x instead of masturbating ?
you can do both, and some people prefer not to have sex until a certain point, or are uncomfortable to. they are two totally different experiences. one takes a lot loss energy and effort, and is entirely focused on your own experience.
Reply 14
Original post by OluwaLynx
Why not just have s*x instead of masturbating ?

Too ugly for sex. We’re not all models like you mush.
Reply 15
Original post by Bo77 Tman
Too ugly for sex. We’re not all models like you mush.

Too ugly? Nah you’re not. What’s your IG handle let’s have a chat
Original post by OluwaLynx
Why not just have s*x instead of masturbating ?

Because they are two different things. Nothing wrong with masturbation - and you probably think its wrong from some religious aspect - when in reality its very healthy for you especially if you are a male (drops the rate of prostrate cancer).
Reply 17
Original post by Anonymous
Because they are two different things. Nothing wrong with masturbation - and you probably think its wrong from some religious aspect - when in reality its very healthy for you especially if you are a male (drops the rate of prostrate cancer).

Then have regular sex. Religious reasons? Yes but from a normal aspect of mine without the religious stuff I just think masturbation is lame when you could just get a gf
Original post by OluwaLynx
Then have regular sex. Religious reasons? Yes but from a normal aspect of mine without the religious stuff I just think masturbation is lame when you could just get a gf
Sure - but I think you miss the point that they are two different things even with regular sex, some still need to masturbate and there is nothing wrong with that. And your point - just get a GF - well for some people its difficult to do that, and even if you have a partner, that doesnt guarantee the amount or quality of sex you may want.
Reply 19
Original post by Anonymous
Sure - but I think you miss the point that they are two different things even with regular sex, some still need to masturbate and there is nothing wrong with that. And your point - just get a GF - well for some people its difficult to do that, and even if you have a partner, that doesnt guarantee the amount or quality of sex you may want.

Is the pleasure of masturbating to an imaginary stuff or person greater than the pleasure of having real sex? How’s it not easy to get a gf? Bruh you could easily pull a 10/10 or 8/10 it just depends on how you roll and yeah it’ll give me the quality sex I want cus when she’s down I’m down for it and when I’m done she’s down for it except during her period

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